Still worried about Luna's and Lily's safety! (update #33)

**Kirsten** · 07-26-2008, 09:31 AM

Will they only do something drastic when she does something drastic (as in too late)?!

Seems so!

I'm absolutely devastated to learn that the authorities don't help the way they should.

A week ago, when I spoke to my doctor about this situation and my fears re. my neighbor, (she's also her doctor, so she knows what's going on) she calmed me down by saying my neighbor would be admitted to an institution for many months as soon as she enters German ground, and I trusted in that. Now things went wrong and it did not happen that way, and my doctor, who could interfere, is on vacation.

Talk about bad timing!

But what can I do except for calling the police as soon as she touches me, my cats or my property? Filing for a restraining order wouldn't make much sense as she lives in the same house with me!

And yes, her husband tried to commit her, he even had another talk to the doctors at the clinic last night, but so far, I do not know what they decided. But I think I heard her husband saying she'll come home tonight

(but I'm not sure if I heard that right).

Kirsten

**chocolatepuppy** · 07-26-2008, 10:02 AM

I hope this woman will be committed soon. I will keep you and your kittys in my prayers.

**moosmom** · 07-26-2008, 10:38 AM

Kirsten,

This woman sounds like a real loonie toon. I pray for your safety and Luna and Lily's as well. No one should have to leave in fear like that. Keep calling the police and filing report. Maybe in the meantime they'll get the hint and finally get this woman the help she needs.

((((((((HUGS)))))))))to you, Luna and Lily

Donna

**jennielynn1970** · 07-26-2008, 11:15 AM

Well, I meant with the restraining order, if they say she has to stay so many thousand or hundred feet away, then she'd have to move somewhere so that you would be safe, and she'd have to honor the boundaries of the restraining order.

I hope that she will be committed shortly and that you will be able to live in peace.

**RockyRoad** · 07-26-2008, 11:28 AM

Oh gosh, how frightening that must be for you!! I`m sorry you have to go through that.

This woman sounds like she definitely needs to be committed. Especially when she is threatening you like that. It`s terrible for you to have to think about rehoming your cats and moving altogether because nothing seems to be getting done about this woman.

Prayers are on the way that you, Luna and Lily will stay safe, and that somehow this situation can be resolved asap. {{hugs}}

**Kirsten** · 07-27-2008, 02:33 PM

Thanks! I haven't heard anything today, so I think she's still at the clinic.

Not sure about a restraining order in this case. After all, she lives here with her family, and to make her stay away from this house would mean she has to stay away from them, so I'm not sure if that would work...

I guess all I can do is hoping that they will keep her in the clinic until she's back to normal, or I really need to find a new place for me and my girls to live...

Kirsten

**Maya & Inka's mommy** · 07-27-2008, 04:43 PM

Originally Posted by Kirsten

I really need to find a new place for me and my girls to live...

Kirsten

I am so sorry, but I think you don't have much choice..............

**Catty1** · 07-27-2008, 04:43 PM

Kirsten - why not start looking for a place now?

You don't have to actually move - just research what is available. You might find something that is wonderful, and maybe doesn't have all those stairs to climb, which I know is hard for you when you are feeling unwell.

Just look at the ads and see. Maybe some karma is causing this trouble to guide you to a new and perfect place.

{{{{hugs}}}}