Giving Notice to Friends

[Catty1]

The people hearing and reading things, the people believing those things and in the middle is the truth.

Remember the fourth side - the side of the person being attacked.

[K9soul]

I, for one, hope Nicole can finally walk away from all this no matter what accusations are out there. If some people want to see it as "running" that's their choice. This has all gone on for a long time across multiple forums and I've seen so many weird things go on and be said that it makes my head spin. Part the problem IS that Nicole kept fighting back and trying to disprove things when they came up and it just made it go on and on. It seems to me someone saying she's "running" is just trying to bait her back again. I just hope she has the fortitude to ignore it this time. It's best for everyone for all of this to just STOP. It's not the whole world's business what goes on with Nicole and her enemies. I think it just confused people much more by posting the emails in the OP and gave opportunity yet again for people to question her integrity.

[finn's mom]

...If some people want to see it as "running" that's their choice...Part the problem IS that Nicole kept fighting back and trying to disprove things when they came up and it just made it go on and on...I just hope she has the fortitude to ignore it this time...

I agree with this completely. I know it's hard to just walk away, and sometimes it's beneficial to fight back. But, apparently, she's already tried fighting back and it hasn't benefited her. If these things are truly rumors, walking away seems to be the only way for her to finally rid herself of the filth that is a gossip monger (and for any gossip mongers out there, shut your wasteful mouths). If any of it is true, then she has her own self inflicted issues to deal with.

True or not, I just don't get why people spend so much time trying to tarnish someone's name. I say, use that energy for good...join a good cause and try to make this world a better place. If you put out negativity, that's all you're going to ever see in your life.

[shepgirl]

Just googled myself, my kids, some relatives and some friends, Got nothing. Just googled the name, no info about anything though.

[jennielynn1970]

It all depends on what you've done, what has been published. If you don't have anything that has been published on line, you aint gonna be there!

[shepgirl]

It all depends on what you've done, what has been published. If you don't have anything that has been published on line, you aint gonna be there!

This is what I had posted and someone said you could google anyone and find their name...I googled some friends, myself, my kids, relatives etc. Not one name showed up because we don't post anything about ourselves, don't go on multi different forums, don't advertise anything, don't sell anything and keep our lives private.

I do have one family member on that I can google but only because she is in the limelight for accomplishments of kind. This is public relations stuff I guess, since she didn't put it there herself.

[sparks19]

This is what I had posted and someone said you could google anyone and find their name...I googled some friends, myself, my kids, relatives etc. Not one name showed up because we don't post anything about ourselves, don't go on multi different forums, don't advertise anything, don't sell anything and keep our lives private.

I do have one family member on that I can google but only because she is in the limelight for accomplishments of kind. This is public relations stuff I guess, since she didn't put it there herself.

Again....

while I am not on the FIRST page

I took some pictures for my husband and some FRIENDS who planned a big hockey game (an all star game if you will) for their local hockey league. I did the photos with my crappy video camera ... nothing special. But on our little website put on by our FRIEND who made a website for thier hockey team that has a visiting population of less than 50 lol... my name was listed for taking the pictures.

No fame or fortune by any means. I don't advertise anything... I dont' sell anything... I am not in any kind of limelight... yet there I am for my itty bitty little contribution to some FRIENDS in our little town hockey team website lol.

Plus many names will come up under google for a 411 phone number/yellow pages website. You don't have to be special to be in google lol. You might not be on the first page but anyone who is deteremined (like those who are determined to ruin Nicole... as pathetic as they are) to find out info on someone is going to look past the first page

Why are you so invested in this.

to be honest you are starting to make me question whether or not YOU are the one making these accusations on Nicole since you are CERTAIN that no one just googled her and it's all because she bred her dog and has a website... either that or you know the person who IS making these accusations anda re trying to defend them and trying to make them look like LESS of a STALKER

[JenBKR]

Nicole posted her website herself on a site with puppies for sale. She bred Sheena and has a wesite, anyone is free to google it. Nothing wrong with that.
As for googling the name Nicole you would come up with nothing. You have to have some kind of accomplishment under your belt to make the google press. Be it a singer, a doctor, a writer, whatever.

WOW I must be quite accomplished, since a distant relative of mine has done lots of research and made a quite extensive family tree online with my name on it!

This is what I had posted and someone said you could google anyone and find their name...I googled some friends, myself, my kids, relatives etc. Not one name showed up because we don't post anything about ourselves, don't go on multi different forums, don't advertise anything, don't sell anything and keep our lives private.

I do have one family member on that I can google but only because she is in the limelight for accomplishments of kind. This is public relations stuff I guess, since she didn't put it there herself.

You can't be serious - do you really think that if you live a private life you won't be on the internet anywhere? Trust me honey, there are so many ways. When you google your name, you may have to go further than the first page to actually find yourself.

[Emeraldgreen]

This is what I had posted and someone said you could google anyone and find their name...I googled some friends, myself, my kids, relatives etc. Not one name showed up because we don't post anything about ourselves, don't go on multi different forums, don't advertise anything, don't sell anything and keep our lives private.

I do have one family member on that I can google but only because she is in the limelight for accomplishments of kind. This is public relations stuff I guess, since she didn't put it there herself.

Your name can also pop up if you've been mentioned in an obituary as family of the deceased, or if you've ever written a letter to the editor of a newspaper or if someone has created a geneology page, your name is probably on a list of a family tree that someone has made. Someone I don't even know made a tree of my family name that dates back to the 16th century in England and both my brother and I are on it and his kids. We don't even know this lady and have never communicated with her. Sometimes it takes lots of searching but it's likely you're out there somewhere in cyberspace. It's possible that you're not but most people are in some form or another.

[Grace]

Just googled myself, my kids, some relatives and some friends, Got nothing. Just googled the name, no info about anything though.

Go ahead and google your board name. 1080 results, and there you are on the first page!

[shepgirl]

Go ahead and google your board name. 1080 results, and there you are on the first page!

Just googled shepgirl and yes, I did find some posts that I posted on this forrum - but everybody has already read them, no biggie. I also found dozens of other shepgirl things, too many to go through, but I guess I,m not the only one sporting that name. Will go back and see if anyone important goes by that name...might boost my ego a bit...