Giving Notice to Friends

[shepgirl]

There are always 3 sides to every story.

The people hearing and reading things, the people believing those things and in the middle is the truth.

No one googled Nicole's name, she has a website because she bred a dog and she herself posted the name of her website on the internet.
That becomes public knowledge to anyone interested in browsing it.

I too feel that slinking away points to guilt. If someone is innocent of the things posted, why run? Why even care? Our lives don't revolve around the internet, most people browse around to destress from everyday routine.

Something I always heard as I grew up - "Where there's smoke, there's fire".

[shais_mom]

No one googled Nicole's name,

how do you know that?

[shepgirl]

how do you know that?

Nicole posted her website herself on a site with puppies for sale. She bred Sheena and has a wesite, anyone is free to google it. Nothing wrong with that.
As for googling the name Nicole you would come up with nothing. You have to have some kind of accomplishment under your belt to make the google press. Be it a singer, a doctor, a writer, whatever.

[jennielynn1970]

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As for googling the name Nicole you would come up with nothing. You have to have some kind of accomplishment under your belt to make the google press. Be it a singer, a doctor, a writer, whatever.

No you don't. I can type in Nicole and Sheena, and it brings up a thread about her and Sheena on another site. I just tried it.

You don't need to be accomplished, famous or whatever to come up on a Google search. Heck, I've googled guys I've dated just to make sure they weren't ax murderers.

[sparks19]

LOL I will admit it....

I googled myself once.

I am no one special. Not famous for anything.

And yet there I was on a webpage that gave me credit for taking VERY AMATEUR pictures for a local hockey game lol.

Ya... you don't have to be famous. if your name is on the web... you will come up in a google search.

[shais_mom]

LOL I will admit it....

I googled myself once.

I am no one special. Not famous for anything.

And yet there I was on a webpage that gave me credit for taking VERY AMATEUR pictures for a local hockey game lol.

Ya... you don't have to be famous. if your name is on the web... you will come up in a google search.

exactly -
you don't have to be famous or anything -
I've googled myself as well and threads for PT came up.

For Shepgirl to say no one googled Nicole is a pretty vague statement. B/c quite simply - she CAN NOT know that. period.

[jennielynn1970]

No one googled Nicole's name, she has a website because she bred a dog and she herself posted the name of her website on the internet.
That becomes public knowledge to anyone interested in browsing it.

Apparently you did read the post either, because the reason I mentioned the Googling was based from a statement right in the 1st post:
They gave me the name of a woman and told me to google it and I would find Nicole's replica. The whole thing was a game she was playing to get on welfare and they are now apparently trying to get hubby on the same.
All this bothered me a great deal, but it seems they bashed their kids on a steady basis and have lost them, something you forgot to mention. [Nicole - why would I tell him this? Just so you know I was just asking about a place for Luca].
Anyway, I did google the name I was given and did find out what the game was…so I am bowing out of the situation.


I think you're being extremely negative and condemning about a person you don't even know.

[carole]

gosh you guy's would make great detectives lol, i never even thought about shepgirl doing that, maybe she did maybe she didn't,we shall never really know, whatever it all seems a bit over the top to me, and plain NASTY.I am referring to what has been said about nicole)

[Cataholic]

I am 42 years old, work full time, I have a child that I care for full time, 6 cats, trying to lose some 'baby' weight (hold the laughter, please), and cannot find the ENERGY to be so invested in someone else's life.

Why? Why? WHY? would someone care so much, Nicole, unless THEY had some underlying issue? Even if you are the world's biggest liar (and I am in no way suggesting this) WHY would someone care unless THEY have some issue? Can't you take YOU out of the equation and see that it isn't about YOU, it is about THEM?

If someone is happy with their life, their achievements, their family, etc., don't you notice how little time they spend bringing others down? It is only when someone is so disgusted with themselves that they need to spend time bringing others down. It takes the focus off of them.

Anyone over the age of, say, 14 or so, that plays in this drama time and again needs to spend some time on someone's couch. If that description fits you- spend some time trying to figure out why you need to play along, rather than let it roll off your back. You can't ever change another's character/conduct. You can only change your reaction to it.

Shepgirl, seriously, you have children? This suggests to me you have some age under your belt? WHY would you be like this to someone that seems to be a total stranger? Where do you find the energy? The desire? As someone else asked, why are you so heavily invested in this? It would be one thing if you were defending Nicole...but, to attack her? What gives with that? I shudder to think that your children might be teenagers...and be taken apart by their own "friends". Is this what you teach in your home?

[moosmom]

Amen Johanna!!!

[caseysmom]

Everyone who is saying what is shepgirls interest I believe are on to something, where there is smoke there is fire.

[sparks19]

Everyone who is saying what is shepgirls interest I believe are on to something, where there is smoke there is fire.

Agreed.

And she hasn't posted in this thread since her possible involvement was mentioned

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