Giving Notice to Friends

[carole]

Woah, i am totally taken aback by this thread, i have no idea what is going on either, is this from PT or some other forums, honestly some people have nothing better to do than gossip or make up things and make other's lives a misery, just remember you are better than that, and don't give in to them, i am sure none of us here believe this nonsense anyhow, so why not stay, show them that they cannot get to you, and just move on, it certainly must be very upsetting though, HUGS.

[Cookiebaker]

Wow.

But i am wondering what the good is in this thread? are you trying to clear your name? If they say lies about you, just walk away. They can only get under your skin if you let them. Just go on and be happy in your life...you know who you are, you know what's real in your life, you know what makes you happy and what you live for. Just walk a way, don't look back, and breathe a little deeper knowing that they don't have the power to make you unhappy.

[sparks19]

yeah it's all well and good to say just walk away....

But when they are claiming she PHYSICALLY ABUSES her children?

honestly would any of you just ignore that?

that is insane.


No way in the world would I just ignore claims that I beat my daughter. that is not something you just ignore.

[Grace]

If they say lies about you, just walk away. They can only get under your skin if you let them. Just go on and be happy in your life...you know who you are, you know what's real in your life, you know what makes you happy and what you live for. Just walk a way, don't look back, and breathe a little deeper knowing that they don't have the power to make you unhappy.

I don't know what all is going on here - or was it somewhere else? Whatever. I agree with Cookiebaker - especially the sentence I put in bold.

[sparks19]

Again I have to disagree...

If someone accuses you of beating your children it's not a matter of just letting them get under your skin. this could cause a lot of legal hassles for the parents, CPS getting involved in a situation that they aren't even needed (which then takes them away from REAL cases of abuse)...

Something like this can very easily and very quickly go from "He said she said" to an investigation with little to NO proof. Happens all the time.

[Catty1]

The people hearing and reading things, the people believing those things and in the middle is the truth.

Remember the fourth side - the side of the person being attacked.

[K9soul]

I, for one, hope Nicole can finally walk away from all this no matter what accusations are out there. If some people want to see it as "running" that's their choice. This has all gone on for a long time across multiple forums and I've seen so many weird things go on and be said that it makes my head spin. Part the problem IS that Nicole kept fighting back and trying to disprove things when they came up and it just made it go on and on. It seems to me someone saying she's "running" is just trying to bait her back again. I just hope she has the fortitude to ignore it this time. It's best for everyone for all of this to just STOP. It's not the whole world's business what goes on with Nicole and her enemies. I think it just confused people much more by posting the emails in the OP and gave opportunity yet again for people to question her integrity.

[finn's mom]

...If some people want to see it as "running" that's their choice...Part the problem IS that Nicole kept fighting back and trying to disprove things when they came up and it just made it go on and on...I just hope she has the fortitude to ignore it this time...

I agree with this completely. I know it's hard to just walk away, and sometimes it's beneficial to fight back. But, apparently, she's already tried fighting back and it hasn't benefited her. If these things are truly rumors, walking away seems to be the only way for her to finally rid herself of the filth that is a gossip monger (and for any gossip mongers out there, shut your wasteful mouths). If any of it is true, then she has her own self inflicted issues to deal with.

True or not, I just don't get why people spend so much time trying to tarnish someone's name. I say, use that energy for good...join a good cause and try to make this world a better place. If you put out negativity, that's all you're going to ever see in your life.