Thanks yes i will be asking all about those issues, i am wondering if i would rather try him on the diet than the pills, i am so confused really, vet said pills better, but pilling ash every day for the rest of his life, is stressful to the cat and us too, but i will do it, if that is for the best for him.

I think i was panicking a bit, when i came downstairs from the computer, there he was on his special pillow all snuggled up to the heater, i then tried him on biscuits which he ate quite happily, i guess it is going to be trial and error with his food, i was hesitant to give the biscuits because of his dental, but it is a week today, so i am guessing it will be fine for him to have them now,anyhow as i write this he is now all snuggled up on the warm blanket on the couch with another blanket i have put on him to make sure he is warm and cosy.

It is the most awful day down under and i am glad he is inside now to stay.