It is SO frustrating and difficult when you can't MAKE things work. People -- AND Pets -- do have personalities, like and dislikes. Isn't that one of the things we all seem to agree on? That's is what ties us in many way, here on PT. And that is what makes it that we (in this case you) can't MAKE things go the way we want. I am so sorry that you have to face this difficult situation. No, it is NOT something you can ignore, and the risk of waiting to see if it gets "better" is just too great to choose that option.

Hugs to you, and to Cadi, and chin rubs for Mina.