Tiger update-Reading by Denise included!

[Medusa]

I love this house and land but we can't afford it and must sell. It's a very strange feeling to work really hard to accomplish something your heart doesn't want. But that's life!

I've been there, lost everything and I mean everything, in my divorce but things can be replaced. You have what counts: a good husband and your fur family. You're truly blessed and your happy personality is testament to that fact. What's important is that you stick together and you'll see how things will fall into place. We'll keep the prayers going.....

[kb2yjx]

Hope things work out for you and Tiger....

[Emeraldgreen]

I've been there, lost everything and I mean everything, in my divorce but things can be replaced. You have what counts: a good husband and your fur family. You're truly blessed and your happy personality is testament to that fact. What's important is that you stick together and you'll see how things will fall into place. We'll keep the prayers going.....

You're right, the important stuff is all around me and I shouldn't lose sight of it. Our next adventure awaits us and I need to have faith that it will all come in good time. Thanks for the reminder.

[Catty1]

More prayers for all the good stuff to show up for Tiger and his family!

[Medusa]

You're right, the important stuff is all around me and I shouldn't lose sight of it. Our next adventure awaits us and I need to have faith that it will all come in good time. Thanks for the reminder.

I realize, upon rereading my post, that I may have come across as though I was chastising you and that certainly isn't the case. It was meant as encouragement during your stressful time of moving, etc. I do hope you realize that. One of the hazards of the written word as opposed to live conversation, regardless of the number of smilies.

[Emeraldgreen]

I realize, upon rereading my post, that I may have come across as though I was chastising you and that certainly isn't the case. It was meant as encouragement during your stressful time of moving, etc. I do hope you realize that. One of the hazards of the written word as opposed to live conversation, regardless of the number of smilies.

Oh my gosh, I didn't take it that way. I really appreciated the positive message in your post. No worries!


Hi Denise, thank you so much for this reading! I found it very interesting. Last night he was acting so strangely and I wondered if it was somehow related to the reading. He sleeps in the room next to ours and after we had all gone to bed he continued to scratch and scratch on the door and meow very loudly. It's usually Jimmy who does this but Tiger is always very reasonable at bedtime but not last night! I couldn't ignore him or knock loudly on the door as we usually do to settle Jimmy down. I really felt that Tiger was needing something but I didn't know what. I went in his room and sat with him and brushed his fur while the other two cats slept. Jimmy had one eye open though and looked like he was feeling sorry for himself that Tig was getting this attention. Or it may have been that Jimmy was feeling anxious because of Tiger's strange behaviour.
Even after this, Tiger scratched at the door so I let him into our room and gave him some wet food without anything suspicious in it (meds). Finally, after about 40 minutes of 'tucking him in' 4 times he eventually settled in once I made a 'special' bed for him with my bathrobe!
This morning he is back to his normal self (slow moving and snuffly).

I hope it's okay but I would like to share your reading right here in the post. Here it is!

Reading:

Tiger was quite guarded with me initially – almost incredulous that I was trying to contact him but he did relax a few minutes into the session.

He seems like quite a robust character who is coping well with his illness – it causes him more annoyance than discomfort and he does find the breathing part tiring at times.

I did a quick body scan on him and his nose seemed to be relatively clear at the moment. This makes me think that whatever is there won’t be around long. I wasn’t totally convinced that Tiger’s symptoms were 100% genuine – I did get the feeling that his cough was a little bit forced at times. It is almost as if he sees the other cats being treated and just wants in on the action. Doesn’t like to feel he is missing out on anything.

Tiger doesn’t make any connection between you and his illness so doesn’t realise that the things you are trying to give him, that he doesn’t like, are for his own good. He is a bit suspicious of things being hidden in his food and although I tried to reassure him that you wouldn’t give him anything just for the sake of it maybe the straight forward “pill down the throat” approach might work best with Tiger.

Tiger’s equilibrium is a bit unbalanced at the moment – he has always felt safe and secure with you and is rather confused by all the frantic levels of energy in the house. Like the others, he doesn’t really understand what is going on but feels that he should. He senses your unhappiness and isn’t sure if he should be feeling the same way. He knows how you are feeling isn’t directly related to him and is well aware of how important he is to you. The good news is that he is secure enough in himself and his position in the family to know that it is not a permanent situation and that he will soon be back in charge.

Tiger does like his time outside – its gives him the opportunity to keep an eye on all aspects of his domain. He rests when he wants to.

Although there is a link with Charlie the bond between them is not that strong and I don’t believe that he sees him.


Date of session: 21 May 2008


Thank you for the reading Denise! I looked through it carefully many times and I definitely think there is something to what you're saying about him seeking some attention, I also think that what you wrote about his nose seeming clear might indicate some issues elsewhere, like his lungs. I'm wondering if he might be dealing with some pneumonia that could have been caused by many factors, including possible aspiration of food or liquid meds I've tried to give him. This would also explain the sense you were getting about his cough being a bit 'forced'. He may be coughing but not with the force that would be needed to produce anything or would even be possible to resolve pneumonia.
Last night I put my head against his chest and he sounds very gurgley. His nose is whistling and does seem to be bothering him but there are sounds that are deeper and may be the root cause.
I have booked an appointment this afternoon to have his chest xrayed. I called the vet this morning and asked if pneumonia could be seen on an xray and they said that it could. So, who knows, maybe it's something that can be resolved with specific antibiotics and nothing I'm currently doing could have an effect on that. I know that it may also show something worse but it will be good to know.
I'm really going to try and be peaceful and happy whenever I'm around Tiger and all the cats. It will be good for me to do this as well. I hope that this will relieve any of the anxiety that any of them have been feeling or mirroring from me.

I also plan to SPOIL TIGER ROTTEN!!!! All his future days, no matter how many he has, will be filled with cuddles, brushings, blow drying (LOL), trips to the outdoor enclosure, treats and frequent attention.

You were right, Tiger's bond with Charlie was not that strong. They shared a room, never fought but they didn't really play or have a particular friendship either. Charlie's best pals were Jimmy and Oliver.

Thank you so much for this reading Denise, it has meant a great deal to me and is a true gift. (it's my b-day today too!)
It seems so evident that you have a real 'sense' of animals and it is so wonderful.

Once we are settled in our new home, I look forward to getting quite a few of our animals 'read' by you and look forward to being a paying customer! Thank you so much Denise.
(This is me being 'stress free'!) LOL

E.T.A. I just realized, this is my 500th post on PT. Yipee! A mini milestone but a milestone at that.

[Freedom]

The good news is that . . . he will soon be back in charge.

Let Tiger handle the next home showing!

[Pawsitive Thinking]

It was my pleasure

Hope the visit to the vet gives you some answers. Happy Birthday

[MoonandBean]

Emerald (Lara, right?)...

I am just now reading this post and I am so sorry to hear you and Tiger and the rest of the family are going through difficult times. It does sound like you are in the solution (which is better than just burying one's head in the sand ) but I know the solution can be quite stressful too. Happy Belated Birthday and Happy 500th post . Yesterday was full of milestones...I hope it was the beginning of a healthy and peaceful year!

Deb