ZAZOU is missing again!!! she is BACK HOME !!!!!!

[carole]

Don't be beating yourself up about it, and i am sure your hubby is just worried,sometimes when we are worried we take our feelings out on our loved one, i am sure he is just really upset too that kitty is missing again.

I understand how you must have been feeling completely, i did not read the other thread when kitty went missing, but perhaps if you can build an outdoor enclosure that would indeed be the answer, imo some kitties simply cannot live indoors.

Now come back home kitty, your meowmie is missing you like crazy and worried sick.

[momtomany]

Prayers have been said for Zazou to come home right away and stop worrying her mommie.

[Medusa]

Saying prayers that Zazou comes home and stays home.....

[Catsnclay]

Is she possibly wandering off because:

a) she has made some new kitty friends? New boyfriend?

b) she found new place(s) to explore?

c) is she unhappy at your house for some reason??? Something new that she doesn't like??

d) or, is the weather nice and she just wants to be out where it is different???


When we decided that Fluffy was going to stay inside (we moved to a new neighborhood with coyotes! ) we had one hell of a time!

I remember the nights where he howled & howled - and we got NO sleep at all, but we did not give in. It lasted about a week, thank goodness, but it was a very long week!

Stick to your guns and do not give in to her, otherwise she knows the longer and louder she gets, she will get what she wants.

Show her who is really the boss!!! (I think this is what your husband means!!!)

[krazyaboutkatz]

Lut, I'm so sorry to hear that Zazou is missing again. I also agree that you need to start putting a harness and a lease on her when she goes out so you always know where she is and so this can't happen again. Please come home Zazou.

When I first adopted Sky he wanted to go out too. He would go to my front door and paw at it and meow every day. It took a good month before he stopped but I didn't give in. He would also door dash but luckily my front door only leads into a hallway so I was able to catch him before he could go any where. Now he's very happy to be an indoor only cat. Good luck.

[Bengalz]

Lut,

I am so sorry to hear Zazou has wandered off again. I pray she is safe and will find her way home soon.

Also, I have to agree that it may be time to harness/leash train her. Warning it may take time and a lot of patience but it will be worth the effort

Eve was most definitely a wanderer her previous guardians would sometimes not see her for weeks at a time That changed when she landed on my doorstep At first she was reluctant as most cats are but soon learned that if she wanted outdoor time she had to compromise and eventually it became easier and easier. She now often goes out without a leash generally when we are outdoors and can keep an eye on her. Rarely does she stray and if she does wander off next door will come when she's called. This did not happen quickly .... and there were days when my hair could not have gotten any grayer, believe me!

The best option would be an enclosure however, training her on a leash will give you more flexibility if you travel with Zazou.

My heart breaks for you and I hope this can soon be resolved.

Hugs, Betty

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

There IS a fence all around our garden, 2 meter high, made of chickenwire! But..., all around the garden it is covere with ivy! We cannot just take that away, no way; none of our neighbours would agree with that, since they payed their share in it.

It is like Denise says, it is hard to say no to her, and then let the others play in the garden; we did it on monday, and it made Zazou howling even louder... . Poor girl, she didn't understand why she was punished like that;

Guess I will have to use a harness for her; but it won't work, we tried it when she was younger! I will try it for sure, but what with the others then??? Is it fair to only let Zazou outside on a leach, when her 3 sisters may run around freely??
I don't know, I am so devastated, down and helpless. Please Zazou come home, we all you!!!