Remember my upstairs druggie neighbor? Well he just died...

[luckies4me]

No, not really scared. They were very quiet and too into their drugs. The guy was very nice, very smart...but anyway, he's not dead!!! There's a twist!!!

My early thoughts of this being murder and leaning more towards me being right! I just went upstairs to identify a body of whom I believed to be Brad, the neighbor upstairs, however, to my surprise it was NOT Brad, but a different guy, one whom I've never seen before. Which would explain why my boyfriend saw Brad this morning.

Anyway, I just saw a man and I'm a little freaked out at the moment so if my typing doesn't make since forgive me. Anyway, I'm pretty sure it's a murder.



***I am now part of an investigation. Actually, I'm pretty much key to the investigation. I will update more later. I'm still a little shakey right now.

[Catty1]

{{{hugs}}} Can you and the boys go stay with someone for a short while? Can the cops help with that?

If Brad wasn't the guilty party...one might hope this would smarten him into getting help.

PLEASE look after your safety first! Call the police to escort you, if you three go elsewhere!

[lizbud]

***I am now part of an investigation. Actually, I'm pretty much key to the investigation. I will update more later. I'm still a little shakey right now.

Right.....

[shais_mom]

I just looked up the newspaper in Eugene Oregan and nothing is mentioned.
Course maybe she doesn't live there now, that's wouldn't be surprising.

[Catty1]

lizbud - was that comment necessary, hon? Maybe you meant it a certain way, but it came off to me as snide.

Sorry if I offended...I do think seeing a dead body unexpectedly, in an apartment upstairs from one's own, would leave people at least a bit rattled.

luckies, JMO - get some legal advice so you know what you are and are not required to do by the police, and also what you can share publicly.

{{{{hugs}}}} to all.

[lizbud]

lizbud - was that comment necessary, hon? Maybe you meant it a certain way, but it came off to me as snide.

Ya think?

[shais_mom]

Catty - I think Liz and others think this is just another page in a screenplay - not unlike another member we had until recently. So to quote you as to what you said to me once when I was shocked at something you said to someone, and I said I can't believe you had the balls to say that - and you said "balls? you betcha" so here .....
"Snide? You betcha!" b/c its another been there done that mentality.
I don't know if its true or not - but I did think she seemed rather cold/callous in her description of events.

[Catty1]

OK - I have never known luckies4me to dramatize anything, not in the threads I have seen in the past (not that I have caught all of them).

I figure someone that seems 'unemotional' in this case either a) has seen a lot in their life so this doesn't throw them, or b) is still in shock and the upset will come later.

But - keep checking the newspaper and media...cops may have quashed info right now.

[shais_mom]

You mean the one who moved to "Timbuktu"....

yup!!

[luckies4me]

WOW, seems like everyone here wants to be their own little investigators.

First off, I posted about this months ago. Yes, having druggie neighbors upstairs is a bit unerving, but I talk to this guy at least once a week. It's either to borrow the laundry key, to charge his cell phone (since they have not had electricity in god knows how long, which is also a requirement here at these apartments), to put milk in our fridge or any other number of things he dreams up of asking us. In fact, my bf saw Brad yesterday morning walking out of the 711, and that morning he went to the neighbors next to me to ask for some hydrogen peroxide. They asked him if he was going to cook meth, in which he replied, "No, I only smoke pot". Ya....

Anyway, the reason why they wanted me to call the girlfriend (liz) was to casually ask if they had heard from Brad, as until this morning no one knew where he was. I didn't feel like my life was in jeorpardy doing this. I had to call her anyway to see how she was doing, as when she lived here my roomate Eric and I made an effort to reach out to her and her baby as best we could, and Clancy said she would have liked to hear from me, hence the reason I was to call. I tried calling Clancy back today but he didn't answer.

I talked to the medical examiner this morning and he told me there was no longer a need to call her, or him, as they now know where Brad is. He's at Sacred Heart. I'm assuming from a drug overdose, but who knows. He didn't say. I'm assuming that if it was a drug overdose that he will be arrested after he is well enough to be released?

One thing the medical examiner mentioned was that they wouldn't even perform an autopsy on the man, because things like this happen so frequently. However, since I had mentioned to them that Clancy was here this weekend on "business" it kind of threw everyone for a loop. But, now that loop is gone, since we know where Brad is.

I also learned that the man who passed away had lunch with his father at 4 pm yesterday, which means he had died only about an hour after this. His father does not live in the state, but was here for medical treatment. How sad, to come here and visit your son and then the next day find out he has died from a drug overdose. My mother said this though, it could have been worse if the father was here and wasn't able to see his son, and then found out he died, instead of not having seen him at all.

When I went upstairs to look at his body they had his drivers license which was from Arkansas, but he had mail to that address, and they had also found a prescription pill bottle with the address on it, so apparently he had been living there, I had just never seen him. Of course, most of their traffic is at night when I'm "trying" to sleep.

One thing I find interesting is they told me that they usually do not contact the landlords? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought it was law for a landlord to be contacted if drugs are involved. I told me roomate about this and he said he would talk to his friend who does maintenance on these apartments and then he'll get back to us. The upstairs neighbors told me they have called several times about their noise and drug use, but nothing has happened. We too have called, and they were given a notice for trafficing and told that if they get another complaint they would be evicted, however it has been months since we called.

[luckies4me]

I just looked up the newspaper in Eugene Oregan and nothing is mentioned.
Course maybe she doesn't live there now, that's wouldn't be surprising.

Yes, I still live in Eugene, but why does that matter? Not to burst your bubble or anything, but I have two kids and a full time job. I don't have time to sit here dreaming up crazy stories to post on the internet, as much as you'd like to believe so.

[shais_mom]

Yes, I still live in Eugene, but why does that matter? Not to burst your bubble or anything, but I have two kids and a full time job. I don't have time to sit here dreaming up crazy stories to post on the internet, as much as you'd like to believe so.

I only asked b/c I wasn't sure if I was looking in the right area. Wouldn't do much good looking for a death overdose in Eugene, OR if you lived in Fargo, North Dakota now would it? And no I'm not implying you ever lived there or been there- just using that as an example.
I didn't imply YOU were sitting around making up stories, like someone else did. Honestly, I'm glad you have a FT job now and that you're kids are finally in a stable environment. Honest.

[luckies4me]

I see. Sorry to have been rude.

Now, as far as the medical examiner goes, he pretty much offered me a job this morning on the phone. We were talking about my interest in medicine/healthcare, and he told me he could get my foot into the door at Sacred Heart. He also works there, as a surgical nurse, for the past 40 years, but does the medical examiner job part time. I really like working with animals, but the pay would be a lot better working in human healthcare. Before he left yesterday he gave me his home telephone number, which seemed kind of odd, and even he himself mentioned he has never done that before, but he said he was impressed with me. It was nice to hear, and made me very happy to hear someone think I could make it in a field like that!

Not to jump off subject, but I had to brag for a second. I'm going to head over to the local 711 right now and pick up a paper and see if I can find anything. Hopefully, there will not be anyone over there tonight, as I work very early tomorrow morning and would really benefit from a good nights rest! *keeping fingers crossed*.

Now, I have a question. If nothing is done with the tenant above, do I as a tenant here have any rights to getting him kicked out? Not only is it me, but everyone else who lives here has had enough. Everyone else here are quiet, friendly, nice people and we'd like to have it that way.

Someone mentioned earlier about posting this online. I am not worried in the least. If they cannot afford to pay for electricity, I hardly doubt they can pay for internet. Plus, with as doped up as they always are, I'd be surprised if they could read!

[shais_mom]

Someone mentioned earlier about posting this online. I am not worried in the least. If they cannot afford to pay for electricity, I hardly doubt they can pay for internet. Plus, with as doped up as they always are, I'm be surprised if they could read!

I wasn't concerned about THEM - I was concerned about the police and investigation itself. just a random worry..
off to worry about something else....

[luckies4me]

Also, let me mention this. As far as me seeming like I could give a rats butt the guy died, well in a way that's true. I was shakey when I saw him, but not because I was seeing a dead person, more so because I was so pissed off inside that anyone could ever do this to themselves. Seeing a dead body wouldn't scare me, nor do blood, guts etc. I deal with that stuff on a daily basis. Yes, I felt sorry for the man because he ruined what could have been a good life by being stupid, but I felt even worse for that mans family.

It's hard to feel bad for someone who has brought this upon themselves. Before everyone knew there had been a death, I went to the neighbors and the first thing out of her mouth was, "What, did he finally overdose?" Everyone knew it was coming. It was just a matter of time.