Missing person - UPDATE Queen of Poop is ok - post #21

[robinh]

It is possible that she is not posting because she thinks we don't "know" him. It's a very common defense mechanism. You don't want to believe that you will have to do something.

He may have convinced her that she can't possibly make it on her own. That she is too ______ (insert word ugly, stupid, etc.) to get another man. This is all her fault, if she would only ________ (insert word), things would be OK .

I know the last time my ex hit me, it was like hitting a wall that said "I can't do this anymore. Being alone HAS to be better."

Gayle;

If you're reading this, we miss you and we're worried. Just let one of us know you are OK. No judgments - just concern.

Robin

[pitc9]

My thoughts and prayers are with Gayle.

Please check in Gayle, we're all worried SICK about you.

[DJFyrewolf36]

I do hope she is ok for sure. Abusive situations are no good for a multitude of reasons, and sadly she could not be posting for a multiude of reasons. Gayle, I do hope things are going better for you and you found a solution that works and is healthy for everyone involved. Please, if you need help your PT friends are here for you. Even if you can't reply for some reason, do know you are not alone in this!

*HUGS* from Oregon