Update on Kirby/Woody...

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Also... if anyone made a donation to fly Woody/Kirby to me, and feels that they'd like that money refunded, I will do that ASAP. Just PM me, and let me know your paypal account, and I'll refund your donation. I don't want anyone to feel like they spent their money wrongly on this... and I don't want anyone to have hard feelings.

Don't be daft! (but thanks for the offer ) The whole point was to get Woody/Kirby/Fred to his furever home and it looks like he has found it with a few pitstops on the way!

[Rachel]

Jenn, I want to comment that I admire that you have been willing to reflect on the recent choices you made in regard to Woody and have admitted that you could have/should have made different or better ones. Instead of digging in your heels and becoming defensive, you have acknowledged what mistakes were made. That is impressive and goes a long way in my book. Your offer to refund donations is another extention of this. What's most important is the effort you made to find a very good home for Woody and to do that quickly so he could have a chance to bond with a forever family. You are also trying to assist Woody's new family in their own adjustment period to a new puppy. I think many people could learn not only from your mistakes but how you have subsequently handled the aftermath. Thumbs up.

[pitc9]

You did what was right for him AND you! It's better you did this now instead of a year or so later. He's still a pup and can adjust quickly!

So it didn't work out... oh well... you tried anyway! And now he has a great home where we can still "see" our little world traveler from time to time!

[gini]

I feel the need to throw my hat in the ring with Jenn too. Let's face it - puppies are A LOT OF WORK. So, Jenn found out that it wasn't going to work out for her and Woody.

She didn't just take him to the pound - she found a GREAT new home for him where he will be well loved - has constant attention - a huge safe yard to run and play in - and another dog to play with as well. She has taken pictures of his new humans and their home and shared them with us.

This whole thing was about WOODY/KIRBY - not Jenn. What we all wanted was for him to have a good life and be safe.

We should all thank Jenn for making that happen. And thank all of the other participants who aided in his transport.

Refunds? Sorry - but Woody already spent the money - no refunds should be available.

[lizbud]

Jenn, I want to comment that I admire that you have been willing to reflect on the recent choices you made in regard to Woody and have admitted that you could have/should have made different or better ones. Instead of digging in your heels and becoming defensive, you have acknowledged what mistakes were made. That is impressive and goes a long way in my book. Your offer to refund donations is another extention of this. What's most important is the effort you made to find a very good home for Woody and to do that quickly so he could have a chance to bond with a forever family. You are also trying to assist Woody's new family in their own adjustment period to a new puppy. I think many people could learn not only from your mistakes but how you have subsequently handled the aftermath. Thumbs up.

I agree completely. I'm sure the little guy will love his new, more active
household.

[sparks19]

Well it's sad for you... but I am glad he is in a home with other dogs and a nice big yard and an older couple who can give him all the time in the world.

ON an off topic note... I saw you mention that one day you might want to adopt an older dog... you were thinking of going to philly...

I just wanted to let you know about a certain shelter. it really is not the best shelter and they don't have very good facilities as they just don't have the money ... but they are GOOd to their dogs. Belle came from there. It is the Susquehanna Stray Animal Shelter. I only mention them because MANY of their dogs are there for extended periods of time. Belle was there for 6-7 months and she is a wonderful dog. Some of the dogs there currently have been there since Belle was there. They are a no kill shelter and are really trying to do their best by their dogs. Just thought i would throw their name out there for you.

ETA: OH NO I just found out that shelter had to close it's doors

[bckrazy]

Awww, Woody. I mean... Fred. =(

I was really looking forward to watching him grow up on PT. He was like PT's baby Basset boy. I'm glad that you found him a more appropriate home, rather than neglect his needs. But, honestly, I am kind of surprised that you didn't ask for advice. (At least, as far as I know.) There are ways to manage puppyhood, even with a busy life. There are places and ways to socialize with other dogs, without owning another. But I suppose it comes down to whether it is worth the trouble, to the individual.

Puppies can be demanding. Puppies do go through rebellious stages. Puppies do need mental & physical stimulation. No matter the breed. I can't figure out how any of that could be a mystery, to anyone.

[jennielynn1970]

Awww, Woody. I mean... Fred. =(

But, honestly, I am kind of surprised that you didn't ask for advice. (At least, as far as I know.) There are ways to manage puppyhood, even with a busy life. There are places and ways to socialize with other dogs, without owning another. But I suppose it comes down to whether it is worth the trouble, to the individual.

Puppies can be demanding. Puppies do go through rebellious stages. Puppies do need mental & physical stimulation. No matter the breed. I can't figure out how any of that could be a mystery, to anyone.

It had nothing to do with whether it was worth the trouble. It had to do with working 12-14hr days and him being crated the entire time. There is no one available to take him out during the day, and doggie day care is not a financially feasible option. I tried to limit him to the kitchen, gating him in there, but that just seemed to negate the housebreaking that had been started.

Had I realized how much more he had to go with housebreaking, and that the crate training is really necessary, and if my part time job would be so erratic with it's days and times, and had it been June(when school is out and I don't have work every day) it would have been less problematic. Had I wanted to keep him crated and miserable for 12-14hrs a day, I could have sucked it up and done that. Would that have made him happy? No.

I grew up on a farm, and our dogs were NOT crate trained, so this was new to me, and I just can't justify doing it to a 3month old puppy for 12+ hrs a day without a break. If there was someone else there during the day, someone to break the monotony in the cage and let him out to run and all that, it would have been fine. I don't have that option.

So, being "worth the trouble" had nothing to do with it. Nor did the "oh, he's a puppy and challenging." I don't know how else to state what I've already stated without someone jumping to conclusions or stating a misconception.

[K9soul]

It had to do with working 12-14hr days and him being crated the entire time. There is no one available to take him out during the day, and doggie day care is not a financially feasible option.

I would personally advise you hold off on any dog, even an older one, if you regularly work such long hours and will continue to. Your kitties can keep each other company and use their litter boxes but a dog is more dependent on human companionship and interaction, and having to "hold it" for that long would be really hard on a dog of any age. If your work schedule becomes less lengthy perhaps an older dog would make a good fit. I'd personally prefer one of the medium or larger/laid back breeds or mixes for your situation. Of course puppies generally are never particularly laid back but often by 3 or 4 they have become more content to snooze away during the times you are gone.

[bckrazy]

So, being "worth the trouble" had nothing to do with it. Nor did the "oh, he's a puppy and challenging." I don't know how else to state what I've already stated without someone jumping to conclusions or stating a misconception.

I don't think I was jumping to conclusions? I just thought it was common knowledge that a puppy needs a potty break every 3 or so hours. I wouldn't leave my adult dogs inside for 12-14 hours, without a potty break, so I agree with you on that.

I don't know, it's just puzzeling to me, why your work hours weren't considered before Woody was flown out. But I have nothing else to say, so I'll just drop it.

[shais_mom]

But I suppose it comes down to whether it is worth the trouble, to the individual.

Puppies can be demanding. Puppies do go through rebellious stages. Puppies do need mental & physical stimulation. No matter the breed. I can't figure out how any of that could be a mystery, to anyone.

I don't think I was jumping to conclusions? I just thought it was common knowledge that a puppy needs a potty break every 3 or so hours. I wouldn't leave my adult dogs inside for 12-14 hours, without a potty break, so I agree with you on that.

I don't know, it's just puzzeling to me, why your work hours weren't considered before Woody was flown out. But I have nothing else to say, so I'll just drop it.

to bckrazy
actually I thought you were jumping to conclusions and actually rather rude when you said 'worth the trouble.'
to others (b/c I don't want bckrazy to think it is her I have in mind b/c it definately isn't)
Why is it ok on this board for some people to re-home their animals and go out and get others and its fine but ONE person finds a Frigging fabulous home for a puppy b/c she found out was going to be too much for her and its like she hung him out by his toenails???
There's other people on this flippin board that are heavy into rescue that keep finding homes for their animals (dogs or cats) and oh its ok b/c its all in the name of rescue. Or oh Its ok b/c they rescue cats or mice or birds or elephants? What's good for one person should be good for the other but it isn't on here.
I have had it with it this mentality on this board. But its ok for someone to rehome their pets b/c they can't afford them and within a year while still complaining about lack of funds - getting more animals?
I've said it before and I'll say it again -
until you walk a mile in someone's shoes you don't know what their life is like.

[Grace]

to bckrazy
actually I thought you were jumping to conclusions and actually rather rude when you said 'worth the trouble.'
to others (b/c I don't want bckrazy to think it is her I have in mind b/c it definately isn't)
Why is it ok on this board for some people to re-home their animals and go out and get others and its fine but ONE person finds a Frigging fabulous home for a puppy b/c she found out was going to be too much for her and its like she hung him out by his toenails???
There's other people on this flippin board that are heavy into rescue that keep finding homes for their animals (dogs or cats) and oh its ok b/c its all in the name of rescue. Or oh Its ok b/c they rescue cats or mice or birds or elephants? What's good for one person should be good for the other but it isn't on here.
I have had it with it this mentality on this board. But its ok for someone to rehome their pets b/c they can't afford them and within a year while still complaining about lack of funds - getting more animals?
I've said it before and I'll say it again -
until you walk a mile in someone's shoes you don't know what their life is like.

BRAVO !!

[CountryWolf07]

to bckrazy
actually I thought you were jumping to conclusions and actually rather rude when you said 'worth the trouble.'
to others (b/c I don't want bckrazy to think it is her I have in mind b/c it definately isn't)
Why is it ok on this board for some people to re-home their animals and go out and get others and its fine but ONE person finds a Frigging fabulous home for a puppy b/c she found out was going to be too much for her and its like she hung him out by his toenails???
There's other people on this flippin board that are heavy into rescue that keep finding homes for their animals (dogs or cats) and oh its ok b/c its all in the name of rescue. Or oh Its ok b/c they rescue cats or mice or birds or elephants? What's good for one person should be good for the other but it isn't on here.
I have had it with it this mentality on this board. But its ok for someone to rehome their pets b/c they can't afford them and within a year while still complaining about lack of funds - getting more animals?
I've said it before and I'll say it again -
until you walk a mile in someone's shoes you don't know what their life is like.

I AGREE! Honestly. Listen to the last sentence.

No offense.. but can I just say...

THANK YOU for stating it!

Geez, please, let this issue go. Kirby/Woody/Fred is in a GOOD HOME! Isn't that what we all want for a puppy/kitten/dog/cat... ANY type of animal that needs a loving home? The key word is "LOVING"..

This is why I don't post much often around here.... sorry. I've been bitten my head off about my post of Anna once, and that made me realize something, and that was only at least two years ago.

[JenBKR]

I haven't been around much lately, so I missed this all when it happened, but I just read through this thread and I have to say I am surprised by some of the responses. shais_mom said it best:

to bckrazy
actually I thought you were jumping to conclusions and actually rather rude when you said 'worth the trouble.'
to others (b/c I don't want bckrazy to think it is her I have in mind b/c it definately isn't)
Why is it ok on this board for some people to re-home their animals and go out and get others and its fine but ONE person finds a Frigging fabulous home for a puppy b/c she found out was going to be too much for her and its like she hung him out by his toenails???
There's other people on this flippin board that are heavy into rescue that keep finding homes for their animals (dogs or cats) and oh its ok b/c its all in the name of rescue. Or oh Its ok b/c they rescue cats or mice or birds or elephants? What's good for one person should be good for the other but it isn't on here.
I have had it with it this mentality on this board. But its ok for someone to rehome their pets b/c they can't afford them and within a year while still complaining about lack of funds - getting more animals?
I've said it before and I'll say it again -
until you walk a mile in someone's shoes you don't know what their life is like.

I completely agree. To those of you looking down on Jenn.....if only we were all as "perfect" as you.....


Jenn: As hard as it may be, sometimes the best thing we can do for a pet is to rehome him/her if we can't give them the care they deserve. ((((hugs)))) I am sure that this was not an easy decision in any way. You did what was best for Kirby/Woody.