Dont ever think low of yourself, it just gives other people the right to walk all over you. Hold your head up high and you are very pretty I've seen photos of you and that man is a complete fool if he couldn't see that.
I cant say I know how hard this must be for you but if I was you I would stay as far away as possible, for someone to be able to lie to your face like that is a classic example of a very dark person who will continue to twist his lies to make you feel guilty. In his eye he may not of done anything wrong but obviously he did and hes been punished for it. You dont need someone who can blatently lie to you face to face and it might be smaller lies but where would they stop? if you was like me you would be doubting nearly everything in your relationship and its not a foundation to work on at all, In my opinion if you can be lied to and let down then the other person obviously has issues and doesn't take the relationship as serious as you did.
The age gap is even more scary considering hes lied to you and said he was younger, You have known him a year and hes suddenly just sprung this on you? Hes not a very honest or considerate man in my opinion
Is there anyway you can do a video link in court if needed? might be a good idea to look into that.
To be really honest you need to snap out of it, it will be hard but get back down to basics here, would you really want to be with a man who could be old enough to be your dad? a liar and someone with sexual assult history? It sounds to me like hes done this before to another girl and theres a word for people like him who prey on young girls like you. You need to cut all connections with him and I would stand proud in that court room and tell them everything, Hes obviously hasn't learnt his lesson, Would you want another girl to go through what you are going through?
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