I've been hiding... Here's my story.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

You said you loved him after a WEEK? How is it possible to be in love with someone after a week...?

If your a teenager what are you doing dating a almost 30 year old man anyways?

I hope you don't run into anymore troubles with this guy and learn a good lesson. That seems really scary to go through but like your family said you didn't know and couldn't know.

I'm 19, he TOLD me he was 27. Eight years isn't that bad. My dad and step mom are eight years apart, my grandparents are 11.

Also, it wasn't after a week I told him I loved him. I have KNOWN him for over a year now. We were FRIENDS for a year before all this happened. It's not like I met him, and a week later was telling him I loved him. I've known him for a while.

As for forgetting about him, I am. I want this past... MONTH to just be erased completely. But it's not working. If they want to revoke his probation, they will have to go to court, and guess who gets supeonaed as a witness? Yours truly. I gave them a statement about what happened, why can't I just be left out of it now? I'm in college, I'm working, I don't need to sit and wait for them to decide a court date and dwell on the fact that I have to SEE him again.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

No one uses their best judgment all of the time. It's hard to go through life and not be taken advantage of by some creep sometime (there are sadly way too many).

I think what shows that you deserve more credit than you're giving yourself is that when you found out the truth, you got yourself away. If you have to see this man again in court, it will be different. Time will have passed, and you will feel differently. No use worrying over what may not be now.

I hope you are able to feel better soon.