Please, please think hard and long about what the previous posters have indicated. Your dog is not the problem here. Your mate (boyfriend or husband) should be a person of support and caring, and as Dr. Phil would say...home should be a soft place to land in the craziness of the world today. It should be your safety zone. Disagreements and arguments happen between people, that's a given, but grabbing you and throwing things is way over the line. Even the yelling and screaming needs to be dealt with, especially when you have animals in the house. They can't understand.

Don't settle for this type of relationship. NO relationship is better than this kind. You know you deserve to be treated with respect and consideration, especially by the person whom you consider a partner in life.

Good luck to you and your marvelous dog.