My heart goes out to you, what a terrible situation to be in, everyone here knows you have Ally's best interest at heart and you are trying to do what is best for her, she is indeed fortunate to have a such a caring person looking after her,i sincerely hope you can find a solution, this must be extremely stressful for you,i do think Julie has a big responsibility here too,although not quite sure what she can do now,maybe some financial assistance with getting some help for Alley could be on the cards, a cat whisperer if there is such a thing over there, and i am sure there is.

You are in my thoughts, and all i can say is

Take care and all the best.