Desperate Help Needed - Noah

[dukedogsmom]

Phred, Brody's mom made a very generous donation that will go towards it. I'll be paying that Friday along with what I can pay. Should make it go down a little.

[AmberLee]

Great news, NM. Fingers crossed that it's clear sailing ahead for you all.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Kelly, I'm so glad to hear that your meeting with your hopefully new roommate went well and that she already loves your cats. I hope that from now on that things start going smoothly for you and that your health remains good too. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

[emily_the_spoiled]

I put my contribution in for Noah's spa last Thursday so hopefully it will help a little...

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Phred, Brody's mom made a very generous donation that will go towards it. I'll be paying that Friday along with what I can pay. Should make it go down a little.

Thanks for sorting that out for me Val

[NoahsMommy]

My heart seems to be on a constant emotional rollercoaster. I get upset/scared/sad at home or in dealing with some other issues...then I come here and my heart SOARS with happiness, gratitude, gratefullness (is that a word?), and above all, LOVE.

I've said it so often, but each time, it comes from my heart. You are all sooooo very wonderful to me...I'm the luckiest person, ever! You have all blessed me more than I can imagine, more than I can say.

Thank you so very, very, very much.

Love, Kelly

P.S. I'll update on the apt in a bit. I have to finish a project first.

XOXOXXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

[carole]

Kelly how anyone could not love you is beyond me anyhow, you are the sweetest, loveliest person i have had the privilige and pleasure to meet online, and i know you are like that in real life too, one can only wish everything of the best for you, cannot wait to hear about your appointment, hurry finish your project lol.

[NoahsMommy]

(((((Carole)))))
Thank you for your kind words, you're so sweet!

Well, so far everything is going well with the apartment. Kristin is VERY, VERY cool and we're working out my credit issues and even the cat deposit between us. I'm meeting her tomorrow to give her a check for the first months rent and half of the deposit she paid. I'm getting an insurance check in a week or so from the car accident/s I was in, so I have that money to help me move in and also have a buffer in the form of a savings account in case I get sick and need extra money to keep me independent.

The check I'm giving her tomorrow after work came from my grandma who is #1 keeping my 'escape plans' secret and #2 has been very supportive of me when I need to talk, vent, cry or just need prayers. When I get the insurance check, I'll pay back my grandma for the money I need to get to Kristin.

So....its all going as planned. My only obsticals now are:
*Waiting until 2/2 to move (because its a Saturday)
*Figuring out how to move things from my parents house
*How/what to tell them after I'm out of there

Any advise, ideas are much appreciated.

Hugs,
Kelly

P.S. I'm planning on asking my brother to help me move 2/2. I have my futon (now my bed), my desk and a bunch of boxes in a storage unit we share. I just have to be CERTAIN he keeps my move secret. I'm 99.99999% certain he wouldn't tell my parents, but I'm being EXTRA cautious.

[sasvermont]

K, I know this move will be good for everyone, including your folks. I hope your brother respects your decision and knows how to stay loyal to you. It sounds as though he too is subject to your Mom's rath. I trust you have enough love left that you will be civil and kind when you tell her. I wouldn't think anything else of you, but boy, can times like this (coming up) can be ugly. Take the high road honey, and keep saying things "positive", even if things turn dark on the moving day. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. I bet your folks will be surprised and feel as though you did things behind their back. They seemed to give you no choice!

I wish you luck, and a smooth transition to your own place. I bet once you get there, you will be thrilled.

I wish you were closer. I have a fully furnished apartment that my Mom is leaving (probably this weekend).....and it is just right for the person needing a quick place - and in a nice environment.

Anyone else need a place to live.....furnished......???

Keep us posted dear Kel.

[zippy-kat]

Best of luck to you, Kelly!!

[Laura's Babies]

Gee Girl, the fewer people that know, the better it is and less likely someone lets something slip. Once out, will you then have controll of your money again? I certianlly hope so, otherwise this can get really ugly!

I have to ask, is your mother bipolar? Maybe even undiagnosed bipolar? I hate to think someone would treat their child like that well into adulthood and could help it. You don't have to answer me, it is just something for you to think about.

I will be back to work on 2/2 so I am going to have to wait until the end of Feb to find out how it went and how you are doing. Let me wish you well now and there be nothing but sunny days and peace in your life for you and your babies. May it be a wonderfully happy reunion for you and the babies.