Desperate Help Needed - Noah

[dukedogsmom]

That sounds so great! I hope everything works out. We'll all be so happy for you to get out of the hell that you've been in.

[NoahsMommy]

That sounds so great! I hope everything works out. We'll all be so happy for you to get out of the hell that you've been in.

Me too, Val. You know, I've tried to keep positive about everything, but it really, truly is hell there. As soon as I clicked off PT, she walked in and started yelling at me for a non-issue. I immediately shut down - as she stood there watching to be sure I did - when to my room and texted Staci that if in the next month I feel bad or sad about my leaving without letting them in on my plans to remind me of how horrible, unloved and unimportant she makes me feel. Something that IS, now I see, abuse. She makes my life a constant emotional rollercoaster - the EXACT thing I MUST avoid to not get sick.

Please God, let this work. Help me help myself get out of here - to be where You and I need and want me to be. I need this so very much.

Thank you all so much for loving me, for you concern.

OK, gotta go. Starting to cry at work isn't a good thing.

Love you!!!

XOXOXOXO

[wolf_Q]

That is great news! I hope this will work out for you and you'll be able to have your cats back with you.

[carole]

Kelly i am thrilled for you, this truely sounds like heaven sent doesn't it?

Everytime i read your posts I feel so sad to think your mother does not realize what a beautiful daughter she has inside and out,one thing to be thankful for Kelly, you are nothing like that,it takes a very special person to rise above the abuse they have in life and not repeat it, you are indeed that SPECIAL person.

Sending you lots of

and a ton of LOVE, all the best sweetie.

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[Emeraldgreen]

That is sooooooooo wonderful!! I will be praying for you that this all works out and that within a short time you will be living in that beautiful home with your cats, just as it should be. The next chapter of your life will be so much better. Hang in there!

[kt_luvs_kitties]

We love you Kelly. Please pm when you can so I will know you are ok....

How much is left on the Balance for Noahs "vacation"?

And I will continue to pray for you. *HUGS* Katie and kitties

[Cinder & Smoke]

How much is left on the Balance for Noahs "vacation"?

Noah still owes $515.00 in PAST charges ... and it goes up $10.00 every day.

It's been over a week since the last donation was received by Balcom Canyon.

Call Balcom Canyon Pet Lodge at (805) 523-7076 between 8am - 6pm PST
on Monday - Friday to donate by credit card.

Give Early ~ Give Often

[dukedogsmom]

Phred, Brody's mom made a very generous donation that will go towards it. I'll be paying that Friday along with what I can pay. Should make it go down a little.

[moosmom]

Kelly,

You've got my reference if you need it. I am so very happy you're finally going to have a life of your own. I also believe it'll help you healthy wise. I know mine have helped me.

Let me know if you need anything.

((((((HUGS)))))

Donna and kits

[Taz_Zoee]

While it's great that you are getting out of the "difficult" situation with living in your parents house, I'm just sorry you do not have the support from your mother that you should have. I hope someday you will get that from her. I do not know what I would do without my mom, even though I do not talk to her everyday.
Do you think that not living there your relationship with her will be any different? For your sake, I hope so. Yeah, they will be upset and angry about you moving, but they will just have to get over it. You are an adult and can (and will) make your own decisions. Hopefully someday they will realize that.
I am so happy for you that you will soon be reunited with your furkids.

[Russian Blue]

Wow, what a difficult situation! I haven't had much time for the forums (and rarely come down to General)so forgive me for only seeing this now!

I think Karen's idea is a good one. Get the parents out while you move - way easier! And if things are that heated, Johanna's suggestion of a cop wouldn't be bad either. At least it would keep it civil while they are there.

I'd also leave a letter explaining everything...exactly as how you see it. A letter is often better, since you have time to word it correctly, instead of in the heat of a face to face discussion.

We went through something a tad similar.....Rob's mother. She accused him of everything and anything. She told him to pick sides (parents are divorced) and said Rob was doing things behind her back (which he wasn't). As you can imagine, Christmas was wonderful.

Rob decided 4 years into our relationship that it wasn't worth maintaining a relationship with his mother because of all the threats and bitterness. We haven't had any contact with her in 8 years and it is so much better. Sometimes it's better to choose who you have in your life, rather than just accepting a negative relationship that hurts your own health/well being.

I wish you the best Kelly - for your health and a new beginning.

[Craftlady]

IF they hold power of attorney, you need the following ...
Revocation of Power of Attorney - allows you to revoke a power of attorney document. Go to your lawyer and get that taken care of before you move.

[Cincy'sMom]

Congratulations Kelly! I'm so glad to see everything coming together for you! All paws and fingers crossed things go smoothly!!!

[phesina]

Fantastic news! Well done, Kelly, and best wishes with the big move!

Pat