Kim ~ I don't think a good website is what you need. And though I hate it when the police are called in to parent, I think that may be just what you guys need. I would press charges for assault. Once a complaint is filed, it will force the issue. Hubby seems to know the problem but also knows he's not capable of taking the steps to get these kids the help they need. It sounds like they have never been held responsible for their actions.

It may or may not be too late for them to learn, but you can save Cameron lots of future grief if the whole family is given a wake-up call.

I'm so sorry you have to be the grownup and make these decisions. I wish hubby was strong enough, but he's not, so it looks like its up to you.