Quote Originally Posted by lizbud
I can't really give you any helpful advise. I can tell you what I would do.
Considering all that has been going on at your house, hubby & kids need
a BIG wakeup call.There comes a time when words are not enough. I
would pack my bags & leave.
I know I've never had any kids, and right now my husband is my #1 shoulder to lean on when I'm experiencing a rough time, and the one person I go to to help me or take care of situations I can't handle. So if I went to him with this problem, and he wouldn't do anything, knowing how physically and mentally hurt I was, that would absolutely break my heart that he wouldn't do anything about it.

I would have to agree, I would pack my bags and leave. Give at least hubby a wake-up call so he might grow a pair and do something about the situation.