Hi Tia!

I would suggest, first seeing if any of your other family members can pitch in to see what kind of a budget you have. Are you going to have it in a banquet hall, veterans' hall, house, etc.? From there, you can get together a guest list and try having people bring dishes like rg_girlca suggested. If not, depending on where you are, I'm sure pizza restaurants cater for decent prices. I also know a great cake designer (me ) so I can help you with pricing to see what's a deal for you or not.

Either way, you're on the right track by starting early. I used to be an event planner, so if you need anymore help, please let me know.