I did bring up the subject of spaying, esp. because I am not sure exactly how old Lucy really is. I was surprised when she said that she had discussed this very thing with her fiance the day before (I think he is pretty level-headed). So I will continue to keep the communication going and emphasize that neutering is extremely important. The last thing she needs is for Lucy to escape and end up with a litter.

If I have to, I will offer her help with the costs. I want to see this baby have a good home.