Need to Rant

[Logan]

I think I'd be upset, too. Well, in reality, I'd be furious! It was yours to give or keep and the decision should be yours.

[Laura's Babies]

I'd be FUMING!!!!! Did you tell your hubby that he had already asked you and you said "NO!" ?.... I'd take the camera back and let him know "I already told you NO and this is not his camera to give ANYBODY!!". That is sleezy going behind your back and asking after you already told him no!

Then hubby and I would have a talk about what BIL did after you told him NO... I would inform him in no uncertain terms that any gift given is MINE and not his to give anybody no matter WHO it is and if asked he should refer all beggers wanting YOUR property, to ask YOU!

I would get that camera back and hubby would have to go get it from his sleezy brother! Ooooooooo! That would have me so HOT!

[Daisy and Delilah]

Bottom line: It's your camera and you should be the person that decides what should happen to it. No one else owns it but you, Michelle.

I would be pretty upset myself if I were in your shoes.

[lizbud]

I agree with everyone else. It was YOUR gift & hubby had no right giving
it away. I'd be upset too.

[Sonia59]

Not selfish at all, it was your camera! when I read the story, I felt exactly the same as you!

[CathyBogart]

Your camera your call.

I have two cameras. The better quality one eats batteries like crazy so I take the older one on longer trips. Nobody says you can only have one camera.

[Taz_Zoee]

Laura said what I was thinking. Not only did hubby give away your camera, but BIL went behind your back because you said no. That is NOT ok.
Does hubby know he already asked you and you said no??

[jennielynn1970]

OMG... he gave his brother the anniversary gift he had given to you?!

Not selfish on your part.

Inconsiderate on your husband's part.

Manipulative on your brother in law's part (you said no, so he goes and asks your husband... sounds like a kid going between mom and dad).