Ain't that the truth! Nobody was tougher to socialize than Puddy. She hated everyone, including me. But w/a lot of time and patience and love, she came around. Now she's my heart kitty. I wish I could take One Eye but I'm so stretched now w/my 7 and I have to think about what would happen to them if something happened to me. It just wouldn't be fair to them to take on more than I can handle. Where are you located?