Quote Originally Posted by shais_mom
you're darn right I mean Marigold2.
I didn't realize what I said was offensive, when I referred to 'she'. I was posting to critter crazy and assumed she knew who I meant as Critter Crazy was the one who was offended by her.

I disagree - I've heard from too many people that she has upset b/c she offends you by being subtle.
what I mean by this and I'm not calling anyone this - JUST AS an example.
not subtle==== you're stupid
subtle - not very bright.
I've heard about comments of her's in other threads where she subtley offends someone with humor but you know there is bite in her words. Unlike someone else on the board who flat out told a person to don't let the door smack her on the way out of the thread. (and I'm not giving names on that one either)
plenty of people were offended by someone (anyone) saying that just by the way a person talks makes them want to commit acts of violence.
just my .02.

and I don't have a clue as to what you mean by cat's mother- yea - no clue what that means.
Oh, maybe you dont use that phrase where you live Shais_mom. Its a very common phrase here... it just basically means that 'she' could mean anyone (the cats mother, a elephant etc).

Shais_mom, you are posting for the world to see though, not just to Critter Crazy.

Marigold2 didnt mean actual violence. She just means it annoyed her for a second... I know she would never use violence.

Being Subtle is better than not being subtle in my opinion. And by reading Marigold2's posts it sounds like doesnt mean to offend people, she does it with humor. And she sometimes says what she thinks.... Isnt she allowed to voice her opinion? Some of her posts may come across rude but read between the lines. Like 'im not fond of the ---- accent' it does not mean she hates the people, just she finds it hard to listen to. (as someone else pointed out earlier).

And I know Marigold2 has been very busy at work lately, I doubt she has had the time to reply.

Just my opinion.