phases that make me want to smack someone

[shais_mom]

you're darn right I mean Marigold2.
I didn't realize what I said was offensive, when I referred to 'she'. I was posting to critter crazy and assumed she knew who I meant as Critter Crazy was the one who was offended by her.

I disagree - I've heard from too many people that she has upset b/c she offends you by being subtle.
what I mean by this and I'm not calling anyone this - JUST AS an example.
not subtle==== you're stupid
subtle - not very bright.
I've heard about comments of her's in other threads where she subtley offends someone with humor but you know there is bite in her words. Unlike someone else on the board who flat out told a person to don't let the door smack her on the way out of the thread. (and I'm not giving names on that one either)
plenty of people were offended by someone (anyone) saying that just by the way a person talks makes them want to commit acts of violence.
just my .02.

and I don't have a clue as to what you mean by cat's mother- yea - no clue what that means.

[Whisk_Luva]

you're darn right I mean Marigold2.
I didn't realize what I said was offensive, when I referred to 'she'. I was posting to critter crazy and assumed she knew who I meant as Critter Crazy was the one who was offended by her.

I disagree - I've heard from too many people that she has upset b/c she offends you by being subtle.
what I mean by this and I'm not calling anyone this - JUST AS an example.
not subtle==== you're stupid
subtle - not very bright.
I've heard about comments of her's in other threads where she subtley offends someone with humor but you know there is bite in her words. Unlike someone else on the board who flat out told a person to don't let the door smack her on the way out of the thread. (and I'm not giving names on that one either)
plenty of people were offended by someone (anyone) saying that just by the way a person talks makes them want to commit acts of violence.
just my .02.

and I don't have a clue as to what you mean by cat's mother- yea - no clue what that means.

Oh, maybe you dont use that phrase where you live Shais_mom. Its a very common phrase here... it just basically means that 'she' could mean anyone (the cats mother, a elephant etc).

Shais_mom, you are posting for the world to see though, not just to Critter Crazy.

Marigold2 didnt mean actual violence. She just means it annoyed her for a second... I know she would never use violence.

Being Subtle is better than not being subtle in my opinion. And by reading Marigold2's posts it sounds like doesnt mean to offend people, she does it with humor. And she sometimes says what she thinks.... Isnt she allowed to voice her opinion? Some of her posts may come across rude but read between the lines. Like 'im not fond of the ---- accent' it does not mean she hates the people, just she finds it hard to listen to. (as someone else pointed out earlier).

And I know Marigold2 has been very busy at work lately, I doubt she has had the time to reply.

Just my opinion.

[Whisk_Luva]

He he, well I guess I can just about forgive you seeing as you own two absolutely gorgeous hammies and we get to see pics of them every so often.

LOL! As long as I can understand people I dont mind LOL! (More photos to come sometime at the weekend or early next week of the hammy boys by the way )

And I agree with you on the fact that Marigold maybe just has been busy since this thread ventured a little into troubled waters. I haven't seen her post anything remotely offensive, if, for example, she had posted that she did not like my accent or phrasing, I would just laugh it off or let it be. I wouldn't take it to heart, it's not like it's going to change the hearing preferments of either concerned.

I agree

[shais_mom]

Isnt she allowed to voice her opinion?

Just my opinion.

you are entitled to YOU'RE opinion and I'm entitled to mine as are others.
and If I think she's rude and other's think she's rude that's MY opinion. If you don't that's your's.
I'm done with this.

[Whisk_Luva]

you are entitled to YOU'RE opinion and I'm entitled to mine as are others.
and If I think she's rude and other's think she's rude that's MY opinion. If you don't that's your's.
I'm done with this.

I didnt say you werent. I am just saying Marigold2 was giving her opinion on accents and didnt mean anything by it.

Sorry if it sounds like I am trying to argue or disagree with you..... really i'm not, i'm just standing up for Monica/Marigold2.

[shais_mom]

Shais_mom, you are posting for the world to see though, not just to Critter Crazy.

I'm sorry but THIS bothers ME, after being on internet forums for 7 years I didn't realize that???
that's fine that you want to stand up for your friend but I'm doing the same. I'm standing up for the people that aren't for themselves either, as its about time someone did it with all the snarkiness and cattiness (no offense to cats ) that's going on lately. And I do not mean you at all or Marigold specifically its been going on a lot lately.

[Whisk_Luva]

I'm sorry but THIS bothers ME, after being on internet forums for 7 years I didn't realize that???

Sorry, I didnt mean for that to come across rude or anything...... I just meant not everyone knows who you meant by 'she'.

that's fine that you want to stand up for your friend but I'm doing the same. I standing up for the people that aren't for themselves either.

Same.

[shais_mom]

Sorry, I didnt mean for that to come across rude or anything...... I just meant not everyone knows who you meant by 'she'.



Same.

I've edited my above post - b/c I didn't want you to think that I meant that YOU were being rude to people - that is not what I was intending at all.

[Whisk_Luva]

I've edited my above post - b/c I didn't want you to think that I meant that YOU were being rude to people - that is not what I was intending at all.

Ok now I am really confused...... my brain hurts... (ok maybe that might just be my sister threw something at me and it hit me on the head.... )

[shais_mom]

I'm standing up for the people that aren't for themselves either, as its about time someone did it with all the snarkiness and cattiness (no offense to cats ) that's going on lately. And I do not mean you at all or Marigold specifically its been going on a lot lately.

this post -
when I said snarkiness and cattiness - I did not mean you Whisk Luva.
And I'm glad we've established the fact that we are BOTH standing up for our friends - we've only stated like twice!!!

[Whisk_Luva]

this post -
when I said snarkiness and cattiness - I did not mean you Whisk Luva.
And I'm glad we've established the fact that we are BOTH standing up for our friends - we've only stated like twice!!!

Oh ok.... now I am even more confused because the post hasnt changed on my computer..... oh well!

LOL! Yep!

[shais_mom]

Oh ok.... now I am even more confused because the post hasnt changed on my computer..... oh well!

LOL! Yep!

uhhh
maybe b/c I edited before you saw it?
GOOD!

[Whisk_Luva]

Dont you mean I saw it before you edited it? LOL!

Yep Good