Karen when my twin comes home today I think that's what we're going to do with mom. I'm going to talk to her about it first and if she agrees will go to mom together.

Marigold2 I don't have much family willing to help, my family isn't very close, but I know my aunt would take Maggie(she adores Maggie) and probably Roxie too. Also this other forum I'm on, I'm really really close with a ton of people on there, and I know they would help us out.

BTW Thanks everyone.