Aw I"m sorry for what you and your friend are going through. Friends like this Dan guy are not true friends at all, and are the type that usualy just keep the friend to use him. It's terrible and heart ripping.

All I can say is that you seem to be doing the right thing. Just keep listening to him and making him feel better, just being with him, he will remember you being there for him and know that you are what a real friend is

I will pray for Joe that he will get feeling better and be able to make a good decision, whether it be moving or not.