Thank you so much everyone, your posts were really uplifting and just what i wanted to hear right now,yes it is a difficult time right now, but i am sure it will pass and hopefully all will be back to normal soon, Melissa had a reasonable day yesterday and seems a little improved, having said that she can crash at any time, but the glands that were huge in her neck are much smaller, surely that can only be a good sign, she has such puffy eyes and looks as white as a ghost sometimes, and others all hot and flustered when the temp starts rising, the night sweats are no fun at all for her, and sleeping is not easy,but i feel happier seeing a slight improvement, she is getting a bit cheeky too, that is always a good sign lol.

Yes we all know that feeling, it never rains but it pours, i have further worries about my niece as well, but won't go into it here until we know what is going on with her health issues .

I am glad that i am feeling better, as i am not sure i could have coped with all of this the way i was feeling.

I really appreciate the support and caring that you all give me, that is why i stopped by as i really needed some from my fellow pters.

David my big Bro, yes i am sorry to hear about your serious heart condition, i am just glad it has been picked up and they are getting you on the right medication, my thoughts are with you too my dear friend, take care of yourself too won't you.

And to anyone else having a hard time right now, remember Pters are the most giving, caring wonderful people in the world, who will indeed bring tears to your eyes ,but at the same time make you smile and feel so much better about everything, thanks again my lil treasures, you mean such a lot to me.cheers.