oh tracey, sorry about all of your frustration, I know you expressed it nicely but you surely need a break!

I wish I could help more, I've never had this problem with any of my cats or I would know what I would do. except I could empathize your frustration - I've went from a sickness to another. *knock on woods!*

but clomicalm sounds a real hope! and I would want to try that if this ever happens in the ark.

glad starr is well now and hope you'll find a way and get everything back to paradise for once! ((hugs)) take care.