I did something a little out of the ordinary today...

[caseysmom]

Donna, I found my mom like that also, it was very upsetting. My mother had died within an hour or so of me arriving and 911 had me try to give her mouth to mouth, that still haunts me. It is really had to be the one to find a loved one. Hugs to you.

[moosmom]

Brody's Mom,

I had a one hour session with a medium, and it made the hair on the back of my neck stand up and salute!!

I had never met this woman before. She's renowned and it takes years to get an appointment. The cost is $100. My friend made arrangements for she and I to speak over the phone.

There were ALOT of things she said that no on else knew. I wrote it all down and kept reading it over and over again. I was totally blown away. The whole time she was speaking, I kept a monotone voice and just said uh-huh or yes. To be honest, I never thought to bring the subject of the telephone up.

It would be way too long to tell you some of the things. But I will say that I truly believe in that kind of stuff.

I just wish I could know who he was calling,

[cyber-sibes]

Donna, if you're looking for closure, you could do some theraputic role-playing. It isn't at all dumb or silly, it's a way to allow healing to take place.

Utilize your imagination & have that phone call with your dad. Say what you need to say, listen to what your heart tells you he is saying. Do this in a quiet setting where you won't be disturbed. Cry, shout, plead, moan, do whatever you have to. Imagine settling all the unsaid business between you. Bless him on his journey, and allow him to go in peace.

I think that we have to let go here in order for them to move on, too. I had a lot of healing work to do when my dad passed away, we were never on good terms while he was alive. I can honestly say that I no longer carry that heavy burden of guilt & remorse. I know he's exactly where he should be, as am I.

((hugs))