So things are changing... (me & mike) - advice?

[Kalei]

It sounds like you two are very much in love, and if you love each other that much, you will miss each other alot, but will also make sure you will see each other.

It will literally be on your guy's priority list to see each other, and I think you will both do great at it and be fine. Don't get too upset, I think you and Mike will both get through it together

[CountryWolf07]

I definitely am in love with him; but I don't want to be the first to say those three little words.. literally. I don't even know when the right time to say it.. but I think it's supposed to happen... just comes out at the right time? It'll be 5 months on May 4th. Everything has happened on its own; and no force was made, kind of like how things fell in place and it just happened.. I think Mike is at the same place where I am, and we both aren't saying anything. We have done this before, twice in the beginning.

[buckner]

I definitely am in love with him; but I don't want to be the first to say those three little words.. literally. I don't even know when the right time to say it.. but I think it's supposed to happen... just comes out at the right time? It'll be 5 months on May 4th. Everything has happened on its own; and no force was made, kind of like how things fell in place and it just happened.. I think Mike is at the same place where I am, and we both aren't saying anything. We have done this before, twice in the beginning.

Don't push those three little words. Actions speak louder than words, and often time, people know that they are loved simply by how you treat them. So just keep loving Mike, and when the time is right, the words will be said and will be completely heartfelt.

[sparks19]

Talk on the phone as much as you guys can..... it really helps.... or even on the computer.

If you can.... get a webcam and then you can sorta see each other sometimes. it won't be the same but it really does help.

I even went so far as to take a picture of myself in the mirror so he could see what I was wearing everyday. LOL it seems silly but it helps you to visualize them when you know what they are wearing and how they look that very day

My husband and I had to be 8 hours apart for about ten months or so. it is very hard..... but if you are both willing to work at it it can be easily done. You will miss each other all the time no matter what you do.... but just remember to make time for each other even if you can't actually see one another.

Also, try to plan trips to see one another when you can.