Don't beat yourself up for feeling what you feel. Love is a wild card, and for good reason. (If we had nothing that trumped the intellect, those of limited intellect would be in serious trouble, right? )

Talk with Mike. A lot. Think about shared activities (camping, going to a game, whatever) that you can schedule intermittently so you'll always have something to look forward to. And keep talking, even about feelings you think you "shouldn't" feel. "Should" and emotions are oil and water - they don't go together. You feel what you feel - talk openly about it, in between talking about heavy philosophy, silly nonsense, and day-to-day concrete stuff. Love is a dragon - you can run away from it or try to kill it, or you can ride it, but you can't pretend it's not there!

Love, Columbine