I got married and moved to Germany when I was 17. I don't know how my mother managed to keep sane, especially being married to my horrible father. I am so glad she isn't getting married. At 20 she is way too young. She doesn't even know who she is. This will make her grow up. I wish she would move into an apartment by herself. I believe every young man and woman needs to live by themselves for at least a year to learn how to take care of themselves. It should be mandatory. This way they learn to stand on their own two feet. Sink or swim time.