I discovered a new feeling and I don't like it.. (advice, please?)

[Catty1]

I agree - don't discuss it with your boyfriend. Your feelings don't have anything to do with reality - they have to do with you.

Maybe time for some fun work on self-confidence...browse some self-help bookshelves, there are some humourous writings out there!

As I jokingly told a counsellor years ago: "I'n not good enough to have self-esteem."

[CountryWolf07]

I did not dicuss any of it with my boyfriend about the girl he dated. Why bring it up anyways. I realized that. Thanks guys!

We talked.. things are fine with Mike and I. It's all cleared up. He basically said "It's me, you know me, it takes two, not one to make it work" and I just knew.. I was worried over nothing. We went out to dinner yesterday, and it was unexpected. He called me up and goes "Hey I'm here, I'm picking you up" and he just finished working on his truck for 7 hours.. and then he went to his meeting.. and we met up again and went to Starbucks to do some readings..

I just freaked out because I am totally new at this; it's my first real relationship, and I finallly found that guy to be with.. and that's Mike. I do really feel lucky to have him in my life right now -- I've never been much happier. It's just funny how things happen right under your nose; and especially those good things that will happen to those who WAIT, and usually that takes a long time. That was me. But yeah.. just thought I'd update..

Thanks for the advice(s). (I will definitely look up on books.. just to improve my self confidence/self esteem, things like that..)

[Daisy and Delilah]

What a relief.....to hear everything is okay!! When you get the books, let us know how you like them. I'll pass it on to my daughter.

I just feel it in my bones that you guys are meant for each other. I just know it!!

[sweetpatata6]

So glad to hear that things are working out well.... NOW YOU KEEP IT THAT WAY MISSY!!!! lol...silly me!

[NoahsMommy]

We talked.. things are fine with Mike and I. It's all cleared up....I was worried over nothing.

Thanks for the advice(s). (I will definitely look up on books.. just to improve my self confidence/self esteem, things like that..)

Oh good!!!

If you're looking for books on that subject, try looking into books written by Dr. Laura...she's really great! ( www.drlaura.com )

I'm happy to see everything worked out so well. Sounds like you're both happy together - GREAT news!

[cyber-sibes]

Congratulations! You didn't let this turn into a roadblock! Remember that what you focus on & put energy into GROWS, so focus on the positive! All of us feel jealous now & then, that's pretty normal. Choose to focus on what's great between you two, and let the past stay in the past. Sounds like you've found a wonderful guy.