He contacted me again, what do I do?

[jennielynn1970]

Thats the problem, I cannot change my MSN.. I am kingrattus all over the internet & have been for nearly 8yrs now... I was kingrattus here too, but I wont go there... Everything I have & do is Kingrattus... I love Kingrattus & cannot part with it because of a guy... GAH... this sucks, why couldn't he just have stayed away

Kingrattus is a name. You can pick another one.

Unless you like the drama and want the thrill of him coming back to you, you'll change it.

If you take his actions seriously, change it.

If you don't, keep the name and then deal with the repercussions.

If he ends up being a freak and hurting you, well... at least you still have your screen name.

Sorry. Sounds mean, but sometimes you have to look past things the small things and at the bigger picture.

[king2005]

Kingrattus is a name. You can pick another one.

Its just a dog, get a new one.

Thats kinda how I feel. I have money invested in it & its part of me. I'm not changing who I am because of some guy. I've already lost just about everything I've owned & what I have left I'm not giving up.

I was hoping there was a way around dealing with the police & not changing my name... The only option is to talk to the ploce about the issue, which I already mentioned earlier I was going to do.

[columbine]

The only option is to talk to the ploce about the issue, which I already mentioned earlier I was going to do.

Good plan! Even if they say "there's nothing we can do until he's broken a law," say "what's the definition of harassment and how do I document it" and ask them about local anti-stalking resources. You'll have to do some detective work, but don't reinvent the wheel - find the people who've already blazed the trail for people in your area.

Love, Columbine

[wombat2u2004]

Good plan! Even if they say "there's nothing we can do until he's broken a law," say "what's the definition of harassment and how do I document it" and ask them about local anti-stalking resources. You'll have to do some detective work, but don't reinvent the wheel - find the people who've already blazed the trail for people in your area.

Love, Columbine

And on top of that...get the police to actually document the fact that you had made a complaint. I don't know what it's like where you come from....but here they do that anyway.
That way...if something happens in the future, thats added ammo for your cause.
Wombat

[catnapper]

Its just a dog, get a new one.

Thats kinda how I feel. I have money invested in it & its part of me. I'm not changing who I am because of some guy. I've already lost just about everything I've owned & what I have left I'm not giving up.

I was hoping there was a way around dealing with the police & not changing my name... The only option is to talk to the ploce about the issue, which I already mentioned earlier I was going to do.

Ummm.... its not the same as "just a dog". A better analogy would be comparing it to your locks. If someone said to change your locks after you were robbed, wouldn't you? So what if you'd have to give your parents and dog sitter new keys..... those who know and love you will get the new keys (or email add.) and those that you want to keep away won't be able to come through the door.

Honestly, a name isn't worth your safety no matter what your name is. ESEPCAILLY since its just an internet name. Many of people willingly change their real names to keep themselves safe. So why fight to keep a madeup one?

[wombat2u2004]

""Many of people willingly change their real names to keep themselves safe.""

Well I don't.....my real name is Wombat....that's what my mother named me......and I'm sticking to it. (Actually my real name is Loretta...but I can't tell you that)
Wom

[Pawsitive Thinking]

[QUOTE=wombat2u2004Well I don't.....my real name is Wombat....that's what my mother named me......and I'm sticking to it. (Actually my real name is Loretta...but I can't tell you that)
Wom[/QUOTE]


As I said before.....typical Aussie

Thanks for the laugh - are you on the Sheila's Wheels advert? I'd guess you are the one in the middle

[wombat2u2004]

As I said before.....typical Aussie

Thanks for the laugh - are you on the Sheila's Wheels advert? I'd guess you are the one in the middle

Hehehehe.......well I wouldn't mind being the one in the middle...or should I say...I wouldn't mind being WITH the one in the middle....lol.
As for Loretta....I just couldn't help myself when I posted that....I had just finished watching "The Life of Brian"......and everytime I see that "I want to be a woman" bit with Eric Idle.....I fall off my chair....lol (can't get enough of that one...lol).

[Catty1]

Wombat: "WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE COLOUR?"

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Hehehehe.......well I wouldn't mind being the one in the middle...or should I say...I wouldn't mind being WITH the one in the middle....lol.
As for Loretta....I just couldn't help myself when I posted that....I had just finished watching "The Life of Brian"......and everytime I see that "I want to be a woman" bit with Eric Idle.....I fall off my chair....lol (can't get enough of that one...lol).

Are you a lumberjack?


He cuts down trees, he wears high heels,
Suspenders and a bra,
He wants to be a girlie,
Just like his dear papa????