Its really hard to explain. I don't run windows, so i don't run the msn messenger program. I have another program that acts like msn messenger. On Windows (XP, '98, 2000, etc) there is 1 desktop. On Ubuntu (the type of Linux I'm using) I have 4-6 desktops running. What happeneds is that I'll be working in another desktop & everytime he sends me a new message it pops up & gets int he way.. I'll shoo the message away & moments later another will pop up... now getting this 60+ times a day gets really annoying. I also have sound on so I can get my messages & everytime someone sends me a message it beeps as me. + everyone who is messaging me under Kingrattus (I have 3 msn running at once + several other kinds, like ICQ,Yahoo, AOL...) it collects in the same window (its designed to use less ram & less desktop space, its quite nifty)...

So ignoring the messages & letting them collect isn't as easy as one would think. I have 300 users on my msn, so switching over would be a far worse, esp if I missed someone, YIKES...

I'm going to call someone in the 22 devision tonight & see what they say. I was kinda hoping there was something I could say that would make him loose interest & go away.

Maybe I'm being to sensitive casue this is the first guy I dumped & the first one that I hurt (as in dumping him... I did nothing wrong in the relationship). I've only dated 2 guys, Rob & Shawn. I didn't want to hurt Shawn, but gosh he abused substances like crazy & I tried to help & warned him what was going to happen. Blah....