Good on NZ! While 'tis true a light hand on the tush can bring a child's attention around quickly, that isn't what we are talking about.

Jones and I have a saying. When he gets outta control, I say, "mom mom's hand wants to say hello to Jonah's hi-hi", and it immediately brings about grins and giggles, and a refreshed attitude, all without contact.

I also look at the times where I **would** be inclined to turn towards corporal punishment. 98% of the time I can look me in the eye (using a mirror) and say, "this is YOUR (my) fault, as he is hungry, tired, too wrung out for the occasion, or simply being a toddler". What would spanking a child at this point really say? I hit you because you are hungry and crabby, and past your naptime, so there!

Not the message I want to send. (and, no, my child is not out of control)(usually)