He contacted me again, what do I do?

[Marigold2]

I wouldn't date anyone until you get this creep out of your life for good. He is diffently oppsessive about you. Dating someone now might make him angry and might make the abuse increase.

[Catty1]

Just call the police and report - NOT charge - him. Most stations have a stalking or domestic unit...

A women's shelter or organization - the Y? Could give you some direction on this.

Good luck.

[Vela]

How hard is it to just stop responding to him? If he doesn't have your number, doesn't have your email, and doesn't know where you live, stop answering him. He has never been abusive to you, per your words, so just stop answering his IMs. If he sends 60+ a day block him, block every name he tries to talk to you with and just don't say anything. It's not that big a deal honestly.

If you can't do that then change your MSN screen name. It's not hard to do. You CAN, you just don't want to, there is a big difference. If it's really that big a deal change it.

[wombat2u2004]

If he constantly changes names on MSN, and you click on a new message....you should recognise that it's him in the first few words....yes ??? As soon as that happens, just block that name. I mean how long will he keep that up for ??? He will eventually go away.
Wom

[columbine]

GO TO THE POLICE.

Their hands are tied anyway. The police can't do anything until somebody can PROVE a law has been broken, which is often way too late. Let them know you're being harassed (which is illegal, by the way) and have them refer you to an advocate who can explain to you how to document the harassment.

This is a police matter. You are not required to tell him that you've gone to the police, and it's often inadvisable anyway, as it can send a stalker into a rage. If they don't want to be bothered, insist that they tell you who DOES want to be bothered with crime PREVENTION, whether it's a city office, local nonprofit, or national coalition, so you can get some backup from people who are experienced and know exactly how the law can and can't serve you.

Love, Columbine

[Pawsitive Thinking]

If he constantly changes names on MSN, and you click on a new message....you should recognise that it's him in the first few words....yes ??? As soon as that happens, just block that name. I mean how long will he keep that up for ??? He will eventually go away.
Wom

Is that from experience Wom?

[wombat2u2004]

Is that from experience Wom?

Actually it is BM. I learnt that trick long ago, when I had to devise these methods to keep all of the women on the internet at bay. To prevent them from finding out where I live, so they could'nt come over to my place and commit atrocities on my body....stuff like that.
It does work you know.
Wom

[king2005]

Actually it is BM. I learnt that trick long ago, when I had to devise these methods to keep all of the women on the internet at bay. To prevent them from finding out where I live, so they could'nt come over to my place and commit atrocities on my body....stuff like that.
It does work you know.
Wom

hehehe your too funny lol

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Actually it is BM. I learnt that trick long ago, when I had to devise these methods to keep all of the women on the internet at bay. To prevent them from finding out where I live, so they could'nt come over to my place and commit atrocities on my body....stuff like that.
It does work you know.
Wom

Beating them off with a stick huh?

[Logan]

Jess, he can't add you to his MSN address book unless you allow him to. Deny him access if he gets a new name. That's a pretty simple solution. Block the names he has registered under before and don't allow him back in.

Stay safe.

Logan