Why are you even answering his messages?


I too would cut off all contact with him - don't respond to him AT ALL!

I would also tell him one last time that you will no longer respond to him and that he should stop corrisponding with you, if he does not you will be forced to contact the police, then DO so if he continues.

What he is doing is the same thing an abuser does. Please do not get caught up in his world - and that means talking to him in any way, shape or form. It will be hard, but it seems you have done this before, and you need to do it again.

I have seen first hand what abusers do - it is not pretty on both sides.