Thanks everyone. Things just keep getting more interesting. I am sure he is losing his mind. 2 days ago he wanted to divide up our property and then work on our marriage. Now he accuses me of cheating on him. I never have and that is the Gods honest truth, I swear on all of my furbabies. He so needs to go far, far away from me.

Catty, I did get the book and have read it and might read it again, thank you, it's great. Yes, he is a classic abuser. I'd just like to take Sasha and go away. We need a break from this nightmare.

I am so glad to be able to come here and be among friends. Thank you all so much.

Anyone who's in a questionable relationship, run for the hills before you get sucked in too far. Please don't let yourself get into my position, it is the most awful place to be. Be careful girls, learn from my huge mistake.