Her daughter that spoke sounds like a wonderful girl. I'm glad she's taking it as good as can be expected. There will be hard days ahead for all of you. You must be strong for her family, you know? You can all support each other and later, hopefully remember some happy times with her. I know all this is just words. Unless we experience something like that ourselves, we truly cannot know how you feel. However, we can sympathize with you. It will get better but it will take some time. Just take it one day at a time, ok?