It's OVER

[sandragonfly]

oh my golly.. I never knew this. nobody, especially my friend should go through this!! I'm so sorry to hear this, I hate what you're feeling now.

please know I will always think of you, (have anyway) and here for you if you want/need me. 2, 3 or 4 in morning is fine too! seriously. looks like we can start off a new life together this year, go us girls!!

just one advice, document everything, date and time of incidents, keep mysterious messages/notes - it'll save you!! ((((hugs)))) hang in there, kudos to you, be careful and love you.

[borzoimom]

"Musical: My Fair Lady
Song: Without You

Eliza (singing):
What a fool I was, what dominated fool,
to think that you were the earth and the sky,
What a fool I was, What an elevated fool,
What a mutton-headed dote was I!
No, my reverberated friend,
you are not the beginning and the end.

Professor Higgins (speaking):
You impetant hussy there's not an idea in your head or a word in your mouth that I haven't put there.

Eliza (singing):
There'll be spring every year without you. England still will be here without you.
There'll be fruit on the tree.
And a shore by the sea.
There'll be crumpets and tea without you.

Art and music will thrive without you. Somehow Keats will survive without you.
And there still will be rain on that plain down in Spain,
even that will remain without you.
I can do without you.

You, dear friend, who taught so well,
You can go to Hartford, Hereford and Hampshire.

They can still rule with land without you.
Windsor Castle will stand without you.
And without much ado we can all muddle through without you.

Professor Higgins:
You brazen hussy,

Eliza (singing):
Wihtout pulling it the tide comes in,
without your twirling it the Earth can spin,
Without your pulling it, the tide comes in
Without your twirling it, the earth can spin
Without your pushing them, the clouds roll by,
If they can do without you, ducky, so can I
I shall not feel alone without you
I can stand on my own without you
So go back in your shell
I can do bloody well
Without. you..

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Sorry, everyone. I've been licking my wounds and trying to mend my broken heart. I seem to be having alot of sad days and don't want to come here and whine/sniffle. I'm doing ok. Just real sad.

We are all here for each other during the good times and the bad. You whine/sniffle (or grieve as it is technically termed) as much as you want - that's what we are here for

[gini]

I sure don't think anyone here would think you were whining and sniffling.

You have been through a lot and it is normal that you would feel sad and depressed. Your life has been turned upside down. This is a caring forum and we are here to give you support.

Take good care of YOU!

[carole]

Sweetie even though your relationship has been an abusive one, I am sure there were some good times too, and it is only natural for you to be grieving, because no matter how good or bad it is, it is still a loss , the loss of a relationship as you knew it.

It is normal for you to feel sad and at a loss, and we are all here for you to help in anyway we can, just know that, you will get through this, and you will be a much happier person,just believe in yourself and know there is something much better our there for you and in time you will discover that, you are a wonderful lady with a heart of gold.

[sumbirdy]

((((hugs)))) I am so sorry...

[Queen of Poop]

Thanks everyone. Things just keep getting more interesting. I am sure he is losing his mind. 2 days ago he wanted to divide up our property and then work on our marriage. Now he accuses me of cheating on him. I never have and that is the Gods honest truth, I swear on all of my furbabies. He so needs to go far, far away from me.

Catty, I did get the book and have read it and might read it again, thank you, it's great. Yes, he is a classic abuser. I'd just like to take Sasha and go away. We need a break from this nightmare.

I am so glad to be able to come here and be among friends. Thank you all so much.

Anyone who's in a questionable relationship, run for the hills before you get sucked in too far. Please don't let yourself get into my position, it is the most awful place to be. Be careful girls, learn from my huge mistake.

[Karen]

Glad to hear from you, and glad you and Sasha are okay. Still sending hugs!

[Lilith Cherry]

We are still thinking of you and sending loving thoughts.... stay safe and as far away from him as possible!

[Catty1]

Oh, Gayle...is anyone keeping an eye on this guy? Do you think he is dangerous? Have you changed the locks?

He's the crazy one and YOU'VE been seeing the counsellor for years?

I think he better get one too.

Remember - we have that new law in Alberta about enforcing treatment...I don't know if he is in that category though.

I'm scared for you...but you seem ok in that house with Sasha.

I hope he DOES go far, far away from you SOON! Can you and Sasha get away somewhere?

[cyber-sibes]

Just now reading this thread. I commend you for your courage, it is never worth staying with someone who abuses you. Sending you prayers & ((hugs)), and pm.