I'm so sorry to hear about Emma's eye problems. If you like this vet better then you should continue to see him/her. I sure hope that all of your cats will get better soon and continue to stay healthly. I'm also sorry that Muffin isn't getting along with Emma or the kittens. Maybe you'll need to see a pet psychologist after all. I'm also sorry to hear that you have a cold. You probably got it because of all the stress that you've been having lately. Good luck and take care.