Quote Originally Posted by popcornbird
We all CHOOSE who we want to be intimate with. We all CHOOSE who we share ourselves with. Its not something you're born with. Any human being can make these conscious choices.Try getting a USB camera cord and plug it into another camera cord. It isn't going to work. It needs to be plugged into the camera, not into another cord.

I know, I know...me and my examples.
popcornbird, your example made me smile, but hearts do not come with plug in outlets. your husband is the right one for you, you are the right one for him, the two of you are happy together. why are you spending time in caring that diane is the right one for simone, or rasheed is the right one for michael. to learn to be consciously aware of your heart is very hard and requires great insight and work. for some the conscious choice is easy, - for others it's not.
i am not judging nor sounding harsh in my head as i type this, please don't read it that way.