Oh gosh, that is just too sad knowing that she has almost been alone for 3 weeks.

Julie, no one will hate you. It is hard enough to place an older cat, let alone to place one with issues.

I think Joycenalex said it best in her post and I couldn't agree with her more.

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} dear girl as I know your heart must be breaking over this ordeal.

In the meantime, big time prayers on the way that a miracle will happen.