any tips?

[lvpets2002]

First of all Welcome to Pet Talk & enjoy all the talks & pictures..
Second of all = just keep working with this baby & someday wittle kitty will be ok to handle.. However sometimes they never come around to be handled..

[kb2yjx]

I have to kind of agree with the above posts. Our Hayley was rescued by me, but ADORES my husband, and follows him around like a dog. SOMETIMES she likes to be petted/held and she will purr up a storm. It just takes time and going about things slowly. Cats make us work very hard to gain their respect and love!!! Good luck ...

[barncat]

I've tamed feral cats and kittens all of my life. Some remain aloof...others start off shy and become cuddle-bugs. It depends. If the cat is letting you touch her she does trust you. Trapping and going to the vet certainly would speed things up and if you have concerns for the cat's health or safety that might be the best way to go. Time and patience work too. Try talking quietly to the cat as you sit near by. Increase touching very gradually.

These days, given the world we live in I usually get the ferals tame enough to pick up and then get a vet appointment and take them in before introducing them to the household... They don't like the vet thing, but it keeps everyone safe and healthy and so far they've forgiven me!

Good luck. Sharing food and kindness has been a blessing for this cat. I hope your friendship has a long and happy future.

[bjm]

you may have faster progress by keeping her in a very large crate (ex. 4' long dog crate) and working with her in it. I did that with Domino, a stray in my neighborhood who was terrified of me. I trapped her and kept her in a large dog crate. After sitting in the crate with her for several weeks and teaching her I wouldn't hurt her, I let her out. She pretty much kept to the basement because of my other cats.

Sadly, just as she was starting to come upstairs and to me for meals, she became ill. During surgery to explore a cystic mass, they discovered it was inoperable liver cancer; I let her cross the Rainbow Bridge.

Other 'scaredy cats' I have, Trill and Emmy, eventually learned that good scritches come to those who lie down near me. So even if a couple of them dislike losing their gravity (do NOT pick me up, thank you!), they will get on the couch or bed next to me to cuddle and be petted.

BJM

[momtomany]

As a caretaker to feral colonies, I agree with barncat. Some you can socialize and others you can't. But.......and the most important things always come after but..........you are providing her with all the things every cat deserves, food, shelter, warmth and love and those are the things that really count. She does trust you enough to allow you to rub her ears and that is a big step. Just hang in there and keep tyring but accept with she is willing to give you back.

[KittyGurl]

Keep petting her and soon she will trust you. Okay, well, she already trusts you. If she lets you pet her more and more, her trust is gaining. Soon she may want to come in with you. Just remember: every cat is different. Just give her pateince and don't rush her.
If this doesn't work, then I agree with your brother. You should trap her for her own good.
Good luck and keep us posted

[KitCat]

Get a small hairbrush (the kind with plastic bristles and a rounded tip at the end) and try brushing the cat. Most cats find it irresistable! Also offering a treat out of your hand is a good way to gain trust.