No don't help her do anything with it. That would only encourage her to continue doing it. As crappy as it is, you need to let her deal with it all on her own. If someone steps in to help her everytime there is a problem, she will never learn anything and will just keep doing it. I feel bad for the dogs, but if she just gets away with it easy as you please with someone else footing the bills and trouble, she will just keep doing it, and that would be even worse for the dogs. But that's just my opinion. I would also stop giving her food and other items for the dogs. Unfortunately it won't help the situation to keep doing it, only make it worse. If she doesn't feed the dogs, after you stop helping, call the humane society.