Major Worries! IT's EVEN WORSE!!!

**borzoimom** · 12-21-2006, 08:29 PM

We are behind you at a 150 percent.. no kidding.. You are there- we are not.. I am so sorry it came to this- I just wish I knew what to say here..

**joycenalex** · 12-21-2006, 08:34 PM

kim-((hugs)) you are walking a hard road, i wish it goes well for you.

**Catty1** · 12-21-2006, 11:58 PM

HUGS. You know the situation and your heart best.

Will Amy Beth be staying at her apartment? I wish you a family Christmas with all the love possible!

**kimlovescats** · 12-22-2006, 01:04 AM

Originally Posted by Catty1

HUGS. You know the situation and your heart best.

Will Amy Beth be staying at her apartment? I wish you a family Christmas with all the love possible!

Yes, she will be staying in her apartment. The same bondswoman bonded both Chad and Amy Beth. She told her that if either one of them tries to contact each other in the slightest way, she will have them both thrown right back in jail! They both have court appearances on January 2nd.

Chad has custody of Jenna right now and Amy Beth has supervised visitation with her. However, Chad told my husband that he didn't want full custody of Jenna when he picked her up today!

Amy Beth has to find a job ASAP ... she was told to get a title loan on her car right away and pay whatever she could get to her bonding agent. Once she gets a job, she has to make $100.00 per week payments on her bond as well. If she misses a payment, she goes back to jail as well. The bondswoman told her that if she could come up with $2,000.00 in the next week then they would consider her paid in full. (Her debt is actually $2,500.00) Well, if she (we) had that kind of money sitting around she wouldn't have needed to make payments!

They also only gave her 90 days to pay off the full debt!

Even if she goes back to jail before it is paid off, she will still owe the balance.

I can't thank all of you enough for caring to keep up with this thread and continuing to pray for us! It is far from over, I'm not nieve about that, but I can at least take a breather and enjoy Christmas with my complete family.

LOVE YOU ALL!
Kim

**jackmilliesmom** · 12-22-2006, 03:29 AM

I am sorry for what I said about your husband and Amanda I did not realise the situation but I am glad that Jerry is there for you.

I am keeping you in my thoughts and hope that Jenna has a good Christmas and hopefully her New Year looks brighter. I am also going to say that I hope Amy Beth abides by her bail conditions and that Chad does also - take care and I pray you have a peaceful Christmas and New Year

**Craftlady** · 12-22-2006, 08:54 AM

Bondsman/women dont fool around they are upfronting the monies and want to be paid back. 90 days is very reasonable pay back plan. $100 a week is steep but then again that's the price one pays for not sitting in jail.

Good Luck

**Lobodeb** · 12-22-2006, 09:26 AM

For whatever it's worth, I think you did the right thing by bailing Amy Beth out now. I can't imagine how hard it must have been for you to let her stay in jail for the time that she was there, but I'm sure she learned something during that time. You didn't bail her out the minute she got in. You let her think about what she's done and hopefully, she'll see what mistakes she's made and come up with ways to remedy her situation.

I'm confident that you will have a merry Christmas with your family. Please enjoy this happy, peaceful, magical time.

**kimlovescats** · 12-22-2006, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by jackmilliesmom

I am sorry for what I said about your husband and Amanda I did not realise the situation but I am glad that Jerry is there for you.

I am keeping you in my thoughts and hope that Jenna has a good Christmas and hopefully her New Year looks brighter. I am also going to say that I hope Amy Beth abides by her bail conditions and that Chad does also - take care and I pray you have a peaceful Christmas and New Year

You didn't upset me at all! I understand that it is hard for everyone to possibly know all that it going on in this. I try to just post the main points and I have neglected to really mention how other family members have been acting / feeling!

I could not ask for a more loving husband and / or daughter as I have in Jerry and Amanda! They are truly gifts from God!

**borzoimom** · 12-22-2006, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by kimlovescats

You didn't upset me at all! I understand that it is hard for everyone to possibly know all that it going on in this. I try to just post the main points and I have neglected to really mention how other family members have been acting / feeling!

I could not ask for a more loving husband and / or daughter as I have in Jerry and Amanda! They are truly gifts from God!

We understand kimlovescats- I do not post my husbands point of view with things either- that doesnt mean he is not there, and loving and caring man etc.. We are continueing to offer support. Its hard for us to totally understand all the things going on, but we feel for you and you will continue- as your whole family- to be in our prayers.. !

**Pam** · 12-23-2006, 10:33 AM

Kim I just want you to know that I am reading and following along, and even though I am far away and not aware of all that is going on behind the scenes you have 100% of my support. Life is very hard at times. We all have burdens to carry and, honestly, I don't know how we'd get through this thing called life without giving these things to God. (((Hugs))) to you and please know that many of us care and are remembering you in prayer. I am so glad that you and Chad's mom seem to have a good relationship. After all, each of you wants the same thing - a resolution to your children's problems and the very best for Jenna. I wish your family peace and blessings at Christmas and always.