Kim - how are your other daughter and husband reacting to this? What are they doing?

Is is possible that your being so upset, which you have a right to be - are you pushing them out without meaning to because you are so caught up on "how" to fix this?

If you are someone who always has trouble reaching out to others, this is the time to stop. Maybe your husband and daughter learned long ago that whatever they did, it wasn't good enough - so they don't try any more.

I am not bashing you, hon - but I saw this happen in my family, and others. And it really hurts more at times like this.

{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}