Ying is gone

[Lizzie]

Melissa - what a terrible shock this must be to you, I'm so very sorry. I can imagine the panic you felt when you realized what was happening and the disbelief that it was over so fast. I hope you can take comfort in realizing that he had the best life possible with you. Keep the others close and let them console you.

[CultureJunky]

Melissa, I am so sorry to hear of your sad news. But please do not blame yourself, you gave him the best life, a loved and cared for one. And you cannot think that you had anything to do with him passing on. It is one of those mysteries of life, the things that make you wonder, what could I have done, could I have done more?
But it's only natural you will blame yourself because of the grief you are feeling at losing a beloved cat.
It will pass, and you will see you did all you could for Ying.
He is now at the rainbow bridge with all the other cats, and he will make sure you get the message that he does not blame you,and that he loves you.

Hugs from myself and Jack & Sunny x

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Awwwww..... I can feel your pain.... .I am so sorry for your loss!!

Please, PLEASE, don't blame yourself. I did this too though when my Sydney passed away while I was on vacation, having fun... . But it is so true what the others say: you are not to blame! Ying passed to the bridge because he was called to go there, to be painfree
Hugs to you and little Yang

[Anikaca77]

Melissa,

I'm so sorry. My prays are with you.

[catlover4ever]

Melissa I am so very sorry to hear about Ying. It is so hard when their passing is so sudden. I know what you mean by being upset and wondering why it had to be Ying, I know because I wondered that too when I found out so suddenly that my beloved Tigger was full of cancer. I wondered why her, why me, why now, why, why, why.....and there were no answers.

Please don't blame yourself....know that Ying is in a better place where he will never suffer a seizure again....he is playing with all his old friends and is making lots of new friends. I'm sure that my babies were there to greet him.


RIP Sweet Ying, you were loved more than you could ever know.